@cassandrabotnick: Okay one last thought I wanted to share on this topic! I appreciate all of your kind words, feedback, and helpful ideas for future schooling opportunities. Next week is already September and we will really dive in on building a homeschooling routine. Today we started in and it was awesome to see how much she already knew and caught on to the assignments right away. With the right supports, I know she’s capable of academic achievements despite her inability to speak in a typical manner. (Also if you hear the singing and chanting in the background, I’ve got some sort of church group going on down the mountain from me and am actually loving their vibe lol)
Wait what? This is the school in Costa Rica? What happened to the student support team? Seems like they’re doing a 180
2026-08-28 21:44:47
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Karen K. :
I think everything is pointing to you opening up a little school for kids who need additional support. Luna is a smart littlw girl.
2026-08-28 21:29:50
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itsjustnickle :
I’m glad they were honest. It’s better than them lying about their ability and her struggling because of it
2026-08-28 23:07:20
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Adriana Estrada Verg :
I'm so sorry about this situation, but as the mother of an autistic daughter, I'd rather have honesty than see her segregated in a classroom without real inclusion. Perhaps you could approach the school with empathy to ask whether it's a lack of resources on their part, or if there are specific areas you can work on with Luna to help her adapt better to her next opportunity. In Mexico, it’s very common that when a school can’t provide the necessary support for a child with learning or developmental difficulties, they ask for a shadow teacher (paid for by the parents) to adapt the curriculum and assist them throughout the process.
2026-08-29 05:19:41
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Jayna Glover :
They were so honest here and without hubris. That’s so rare. I hope you take her up on the dance class. Maybe a small step to give Luna more comfort.
2026-08-28 22:41:21
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Cynt.Me :
glad they were honest with you. Also, it's ok for you to feel the way you feel. Luna is a lucky Girl to have you as parents. Have an amazing time in Costa Rica, it looks gorgeous!
2026-08-30 05:53:46
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jaimee965 :
You can understand and be sad at the same time. It sucks that life has so many more roadblocks for people that don’t fit in a perfect box. Sending you and your girl all the love and good vibes. With you as her mom I have no doubt she will thrive this year however it looks.
2026-08-29 00:07:00
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AddisonGrayy :
Look at the Journey School of Costa Rica, they support autistic children.
2026-08-28 22:52:30
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Dana Zientara :
My concern would be- yes you both as parents can communicate with her and teach her effectively through homeschool, but she needs to be able to do the same with the public as she gets older and there’s more opportunity for public contact. Maybe my concern is misguided, or I’m not thinking through it correctly.
2026-08-28 21:45:24
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Jennifer Dyer :
It’s so hard to find the right fit. We did 2 years of gen ed then a mixed year of sped/gen ed before finally committing to gen ed with inclusion a couple hours a day. He spends his day in sped working on grade level work at his own pace and in a way that’s best suited to his preferred style of learning.
2026-08-28 21:34:35
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❤️ :
Offering after school clubs is something I’d consider if you think it can be a positive environment. Could be good to have for socializing in addition to or in case she doesn’t like the Montessori.
2026-08-29 17:37:21
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ام فهد :
I just went through something like this with my boy and my heart is broken i do not know what to do i wish the world saw him just like i see him 💔
2026-08-28 23:06:33
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:) :
I live in Santa Teresa Costa Rica. There’s a Waldorf school (Gaia) and a Montessori school, but it’s newer, it started a year ago. Santa is a great town, expensive but community oriented and so beautiful!
2026-08-30 19:17:29
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Erica Fritsche Vigli :
If you can ever stomach returning to the northeast I think you'll find the right place for her . (Though it's not perfect )
2026-08-29 00:47:27
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Jenn :
It's natural to grieve that a promising situation wasn't it.
2026-08-29 08:58:40
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jewelsmarie40 :
Sounds like they really like her as a kid though that’s good
2026-08-28 23:31:06
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shellysue2 :
Awe so sorry Cassie!! You will be a great teacher to Luna! Luna is very smart!!
2026-08-29 01:34:38
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jewelsmarie40 :
I’m glad they were honest
2026-08-28 23:30:27
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Natalie Greenberg :
I feel this so deeply in my bones… I see you
2026-08-28 23:55:49
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Ashley ♏️🇵🇹 :
In ecuador its the same
2026-08-29 20:08:03
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JoyJoy :
It’s going to be ok. It’s just sad it didn’t work out because you want to give you children everything. It’s got to be difficult being in a new country also. Sending you my love and prayers. 🙏🏻💜
2026-08-31 04:04:35
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jess1717🇨🇦 :
I wish schools would say this to us.
2026-08-29 14:59:14
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Mar Sanabria :
Maybe try a public school? I know they allow kids to attend half days if needed
2026-08-29 08:04:33
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tiedyemomx2 :
I think they said it so sweetly. I think the invite to clubs is a great compromise. She’s not too much. They just don’t have what she needs. I think you could find the right spot. If there’s an opportunity over there to hire an aide for her to attend programs it might be easier to do than here in the states.
2026-08-29 05:33:44
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pattitrolan :
She’s a smart little girl and do just fine for 11 months❤️
2026-08-29 19:15:06
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