abbyeckel
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Megan Freed :
START COOKING FOOD YOU LIKE. ONLY YOU. not making two meals, just make the one you really like. tell them if they dont want it pbj is available they are welcome to make it. obviously if your kids are not old enough to make their own you might have to make a small second option.
2026-08-29 03:19:53
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DonnaMSD :
Watch the show YOU want to watch. Sit in the recliner that's most comfy. Cook the foods YOU like even if they don't. Sleep in, let them fend for themselves. Go shopping in the stores YOU like. Put YOUR music on in the car. Keeping yourself human isn't greedy.🥰
2026-08-28 23:46:03
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Jackie :
my husband just thinks I'm mean now
2026-08-29 14:26:14
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auntie Nat :
I made vegetables I like and then a salad for anyone who didn't want them the other night and it was a whole thing. I really am just the help.
2026-08-29 01:04:02
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HoneyLoveGardening :
My dudes, make it possible for your wives to center themselves. I promise, it's worth it.
2026-08-29 00:07:07
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Conversations with Kathleen :
I do the Christmas shopping for our four children. Three years ago I added myself to the list.
2026-08-29 23:23:43
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BrownCoatBelle :
Not having kids for a man is also free. 🖤 staying childfree saves you from a LOT of the men who expect a mommy bangmaid.
2026-08-29 00:11:32
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Tim Doyle :
I need a husband reveal please.
2026-08-29 08:00:46
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Jeanette Htn779🌎🆘🇺🇸 :
why is it when a woman centers herself it's "selfish". when a man centers himself, it's self-care and just men being men.
2026-09-01 15:18:40
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tamaragetchell :
My kids do their own laundry and my husband helps with ours. One thing I did this year is cancel Christmas. We already go away for thanksgiving but Christmas is so much work while his family sits on their asses and him and I do all the cooking and cleaning. They get to spend time with my kids and enjoy them and do no work. I told him no more. No one is allowed over on Christmas Day and I’ll do a catered meal for us
2026-08-30 01:10:49
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MA :
I am a 58 year old professional woman with 3 children who has had this approach since I got married 27 years ago. We are happy. I don’t manage my husband and he doesn’t manage me. We manage kids together.
2026-08-30 12:06:52
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DebBsue52 :
Once upon a time, If my man knew about “me time” he would do his best to steal it.
2026-08-29 00:45:38
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Sarah:) :
a few years ago i stopped doing his laundry, I stopped doing my kids when they turn 15. he was angry called me selfish, he eventually figured it out. i only do mine and ALL the linens of course lol
2026-08-30 11:29:48
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maria ines :
✔️turns out I'm advanced student ready to level up...what's next!
2026-08-29 00:05:43
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Andrea :
not only did I stop buying gifts for my husband's family, I also removed every birthday/ anniversary reminder from my calendar so I can't possibly know or worry about reminding him 🥰 I did warn him first & it's a fabulous move that I HIGHLY recommend
2026-08-29 20:19:57
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💙 Melissa Rae 443 🆘 🇺🇸 :
The first year I had him buy most of the Christmas gifts for his family, he took full credit for every single one. 🙄 I’ve been buying gifts for both families and signed both our names to everything for over 15 years. He got an earful when we got home.
2026-08-31 08:05:27
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hansyyy :
the showing up empty handed is SO HARD though cos we've all been socialized to expect women to do these jobs. so worth it though
2026-08-29 04:05:10
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Pam is anxious :
Sometimes I eat when my kid goes to bed. And it’s wonderful
2026-08-29 02:39:27
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juliebrownwisch :
Taking time to care for you should not be so frowned upon ! Why do we always have to be absolutely last on the list EVERY. SINGLE. TIME!
2026-08-31 17:27:55
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mylifetheparody :
I love these!
2026-09-02 15:13:25
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Nā :
You can't pour from an empty cup. I wish I had known about this concept earlier in my life. No time like the present. I dare say centering yourself allows you to show up as your most authentic and caring self
2026-08-31 02:10:10
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Dawn Duca :
The red under nail is absolute fire
2026-08-30 00:15:43
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Tristessa :
Saying no sucks so bad. I was very stressed by it. But I still miss being invited because when you start doing this you stop being invited.
2026-08-31 02:50:54
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becomeorthodox :
“Centering yourself” is selfishness. God is at the center, and your family comes first.
2026-08-28 23:50:16
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Drewdevil312 :
So is it okay if men’s center them instead of their wives or kids?
2026-08-28 23:12:34
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