I've haven't even got my first kiss and im 22. I feel like im so behind
2026-08-29 22:19:48
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meow :
i honestly just don‘t expect it to happen anymore
2026-08-29 20:44:06
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Zero prospects :
Girl …. I thought you were gonna give us something helpful . I’m a law student with extremely minimal free time , so now I’m just busy and hurting. Stop telling single people that if they feel lonely, it’s bc they’re not busy enough . Work and hobbies will never be a replacement for human connection. If you feel lonely and sad abt never being in a relationship it just means you’re human and you’re desiring that companionship
2026-09-10 01:24:32
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Sonia :
most relationships come through friends and I don't have friends and I feel it's just not going to happen
2026-08-29 00:26:53
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womp :
I genuinely just have the issue of not believing I deserve it. Anyone I’ve ever liked I’ve just talked myself out of it in one way or another, and I rarely ever even reach that point with someone🫠
2026-09-09 23:39:57
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Robert Wheeler :
girl I am almost 33. Work full time, go the the gym 5-6 days a week, train mma 2-3 days a week, have half a dozen hobbies. And attend church. I am as busy as I can possibly be.
2026-08-29 14:46:22
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JoJo :
Sorry but being busy does not guarantee a relationship. It also doesn’t “happen when you least expecting” to everyone.
2026-08-29 18:06:44
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bla :
I will never get dating culture. Seems so inorganic to me. For me it has always been friendship into romantic.
Girl, I can work and do as many hobbies as I can, but the hurt will always be there… it’s an impossible feeling to describe if you’ve never felt it because it’s not just about “I want a boyfriend” it’s genuinely questioning if you are even lovable at all. It fucks up your psyche so much. It’s not like we are trying to think about it. It’s not like I want to think about it. It takes the simplest little thing in my entire day is ruined emotionally, I don’t think that this advice is hitting in the way that you think because it is a natural human desire to want to be desired. We are quite literally engineered to be with another person so to tell people that they just need to distract themselves from something that is innately human. It’s just rude honestly.
2026-08-30 16:19:29
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dilla :
girl this is bad advice, ppl need to get busy but also put themselves out there, otherwise ull turn 30 and everyone is settled and u just need to get started, least expect it is not true
2026-08-29 16:08:04
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sophieacovey :
Girl, I am BUSY. I’m a doctor, own 2 horses and a hyperactive dog. 29 and it hasn’t happend yet.
2026-08-30 06:32:01
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esti chikirin 🇸🇻🇵🇸🪶 :
thats the thing tho, i never expect it to happen. i always least expect it. then i ruin the situation because im unaware of the other persons true actions and i just act like “oh that was odd”
2026-08-29 02:43:17
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sunnydelite :
There’s a guy I’m interested in and I’ve never dated. I know we both like each other but he’s divorced, so he’s experienced while I’m the opposite!
2026-08-29 12:22:47
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🌀haqa :
i have two jobs and i’m learning three languages trust me im busy enough 😭and yet
2026-08-29 13:42:27
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rach :
i doubt i’ll ever be loved. i’ve tried and i just don’t think it’s meant for me. im not worth it. (,:
2026-08-29 21:40:04
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angelbalbuena861 :
I never had a girlfriend in my life. I am 25.
2026-08-29 10:09:53
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Hayley :
I’m 24 and while I’m not really craving a relationship literally every single person i know is in one. And when it comes to my social life then it’s either their significant other is always there or you never see them bc they prefer to be with their significant other
2026-08-29 15:26:24
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Atomic Shaman Clips :
I accepted dying alone.
2026-08-29 23:47:58
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Jadyn Davis920 :
How old where you exactly? I’m 24
2026-08-29 03:14:04
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HexedZenith :
25, school and work. planning to start my own buisness, ignored dating apps for years. I dont think itll happen for me, it makes me feel undesirable and I think thats how ill just accept it
2026-08-30 02:17:32
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totallytaylors_nails :
Some people may think it's weird that some people have not been in a relationship. But I don't think it's weird because so many people these days have been through this and end up only dating and marrying their person later on in life. I for one only want to date my person at this point. I want to skip all the situationships.
2026-08-29 17:48:43
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user5349293830829 :
awful advice. do other things to accomplish completely other thing?
2026-08-29 22:52:23
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Jeff :
Bro, I’m 54 and never been in a relationship or even tried to date. Seems like a chore and too much effort. But don’t get me wrong, celibacy is unbearable
2026-08-29 05:44:04
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