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Hanaa |-/ :
You’re sooo real for this because it causes so many misconceptions and then play victim 😭
2026-08-28 23:44:14
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ᖭི༏ᖫྀ 𝕭𝖆𝖗𝖇𝖗𝖆 ᖭི༏ᖫྀ🦄 :
I can’t speak up Because if I do everyone I know is gonna hate me
2026-08-29 00:05:27
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Shell ✨⭐️💫 :
THANK YOUUUUUU!!!
2026-08-29 07:45:52
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Musadesh :
i'm uncomfortable
2026-08-28 23:46:06
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Judith :
in the same vein i cant be friends with someone who wont let me speak up when something is making me uncomfortable likeeeeeee i rely on communication
2026-08-28 23:46:11
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sham-sham :
IMMEDIATELY followed u🔥
2026-08-29 08:06:02
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Ingeniousa :
or if people ignore when YOU DO COMMUNICATE. no, nope, oh my gosh
2026-08-29 00:45:38
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Codename:Crispy :
I agree so much! I used to not be like this and most definitely used to be the “wait until they ask if i’m okay or if they did something to make me feel this way” kind of person and it used to cause so many problems and I only now recently learned to not be this way due to my amazing best friend who taught me to not feel uncomfortable with absolute directness. My main problem was that I’ve always felt like being my authentic self would turn people away from me. But now I cannot envision any other way to live than being 100% direct with anyone that I cannot even understand why I saw things any other way. I finally feel free and seen and like I have more agency in my life now after meeting my best friend and learning this skill and realizing that certain things don’t have to be uncomfortable. Absolute transparency in so amazing. I literally tell her when certain people in her life make me jealous (I overthink people’s love for me a lot) and even something as silly as that that you’d think id have to hide from her is something we can work out and I can get over very easily due to how direct we are with one another. So many beautiful things come from being direct everyone. Please always be direct with your friends! 💗
2026-08-29 01:44:32
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mega cvnt :
its like everyone expects everyone to be clairvoyant. like no i dont know exactly what youre thinking about.
2026-08-29 01:14:00
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vmp ally 🦝 🐾 :
and just for my piece of mind: this is NOT about situations where expecting someone to ask if ur okay is obvious. in my experience if u are not okay with something and u just say that they will not b upset. especially if u tell them u will endure just bcuz u care about their shared experience with you!! pls!
2026-08-29 05:55:14
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𐔌 🤍 𐦯 niko / ace ｡ৎ :
theres an account claiming to be you btw 😓
2026-08-29 00:53:19
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💜✨🇵🇸 :
I used to be this way and low-key learned it exhausting to be acting like that but now that I do people hate if
2026-08-29 02:56:30
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thekillerkelleymma :
what if i can't ask for ketchup and make my gf do it
2026-08-28 23:43:47
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Absoleo :
as i have the tism i will also info dump the why and backstory 🤷♂️
2026-08-29 00:04:19
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Camilla :
EXACTLY
2026-08-28 23:43:38
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Jesse Taylor :
I watched a really interesting video about how people always become friends with or date/have crushes on people who are on the same level of emotional development and trauma resolution that they’re at
2026-08-29 02:00:40
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Mary ❤️🔥 COACH + HEALER :
This should be more viral
2026-08-29 01:14:23
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happy :
me as FUUUUUUUK
2026-08-29 00:47:43
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Bryn💜 :
True but also you have to actually show you can cope with me stating those needs, otherwise ill just start working around you to get those needs met, not in a resentful way but just in a 'if I know you wont listen im just not going to involve you' way, like if im saying 'hey whenever i do x you do y and its bothering me a lot' and you say 'how dare you expect me to not do y its part of who I am' then fine but you dont get to complain when I stop doing x
2026-08-29 07:09:15
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