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The part about making excuses for them using “autism and trauma” is so accurate. These predators will always claim to have trauma and autism to hide behind those labels
2026-08-29 16:13:39
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Echo :
And then when you speak up, people say 'but they're so nice'.
Exactly. That's the mask. And that's why it's so isolating.
2026-08-29 06:50:27
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Lilithai 爱 :
and then everyone believes there lies
2026-08-29 04:15:35
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Cobalt_Moon :
The abuse they do is so calculated,complex,and mostly about poking,prodding reactive abuse. Which they are usually little things outwardly,but the meaning of them,the way they are done or said is like salt in wounds. To try to explain to someone an example,is nearly impossible.
2026-08-29 03:41:35
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Solo Girlie :
yep! he even took me to court to try to gag me to protect his reputation and the abuse
2026-08-29 13:34:46
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Tanya Harvey :
and its the long game. The seeds of doubt planted by the abuser about your behaviour/reactions long before even you are fully aware of what is going on
2026-08-29 09:00:00
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NZFoodie🇳🇿 :
I understand what you're saying 💯 Wolf in Sheep's clothing are the absolute worst human beings!! They put on show and act like a good person in public but behind closed doors are a completely different person. Stay strong and know your worth 🤗✨
2026-08-29 07:30:40
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Greek/Irish :
It it's difficult to say the least, trying to reconcile the version of the woman I knew, to who she is now.
Those 2 versions are so incongruous with each other, that I keep going back to remember things JUST in case I remembered something wrong.
It really sucks, to say the least.
2026-08-29 03:17:12
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Danny71 :
You nail it everytime, they played me like a fool..
2026-08-29 03:34:59
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Cala :
I think because they’re so damn convincing good at the act, that they make you doubt your own trust and judgment within yourself 🤯 that’s just how incredibly convincing they are, to the point where they can destroy your own sense of self, before you even realise who they are. 🙏
2026-08-29 09:15:42
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Kiki the Dog :
Yep, and thanks for talking to you. My eyes were open two years ago. Yeah once the veil is lifting. The past come back come back to haunt you. Every day is a different new reality of what actually happened.
2026-08-29 13:11:16
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kitty :
I understand 😮💨
2026-08-29 12:39:34
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FEISTY Whity :
I feel you. I believe you.
2026-08-29 19:30:38
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Pat on TikTok :
I met "mine" at work. One of the first things she told me what she had ADHD.. I told two colleagues what had happened between us, and neither of them could believe how nasty she could be. On the other hand, someone else entirely told me that she was deeply unpopular with her colleagues. Make of that what you will. It didn't make me feel any better, though..
2026-08-29 09:33:57
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Mili96 :
Oh my goodness for 27 years now, he presents as a shy passive engineer…now with my sister
2026-08-29 08:37:07
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crystalvogue825 :
no one believes me... some of his flying monkeys thinks he is just a toxic lover boy... because he is a covert narcissist 🥺🥺
2026-08-29 07:12:53
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lucypie75 :
omg i understand I feel like a pariah tio people now ..he was so charming and lovable ❤️
2026-08-29 05:01:53
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🌻 :
Ex husband was kind, funny, the life of every party, liked by everyone & offered help to anyone who needed it. Behind closed doors, an absolute nightmare. He’d scream, spit, slam doors, throw & smash things. I left after 25 yrs. He was an utter fraud.
2026-08-29 11:55:09
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🇨🇦 Terry Mc :
Yup my ex classic narcissist was good looking, witty and loved to talk and entertain. Everyone loved him. But he truly was an evil person behind closed doors. I was with him 8 years and 10 years later I’d say I’m better emotionally but it took a huge toll. All his flying monkeys supported him. Now that I feel better I’m actually moving to a place where apparently he is living close by and I truly don’t give a damn if I run into him. I’ll call him out on the truth as to what he is in front of others. I will gladly talk to his current partner as I’m sure she’s already seen the other side of him by now.
2026-08-29 03:34:09
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Mili96 :
And they are always perverts
2026-08-29 08:38:47
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Somewhere I Belong ☮️🇦🇺 :
💯
2026-08-29 05:59:29
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Angelique🪷 :
❤️❤️❤️
2026-08-29 05:17:26
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