@filmedbyerica: do you still recognize me if I’m not in the car #harshsisteradvice

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maze.n27
Maze :
A common woman’s mistake when dating is pulling away when he is showing effort and interesting in you, and playing games to see who can show the most nonchalant attitude. I’m done with avoidant woman like this
2026-08-29 14:04:27
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enkulkar2
Coolguy :
I would rather have this instead of a girlfriend
2026-08-29 06:59:10
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miam.k1
MIAM K. :
What if she is the one who initially approached you asked you on a date. You have been on 2 where I was nothing but a gentleman to her then recently has been standoff’ish? What is that about and what advice can you give?
2026-09-11 22:18:19
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mk2_757
mk2_757 :
Avoidant type…leave immediately
2026-09-12 02:57:53
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viral.stealz
Viral Stealz :
If she's playing games or pulling away then she's not the one for you. If you want a relay then find the girls that make it easy for you and don't make you confused.
2026-08-30 07:49:33
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bayside.erides
Bayside E-Rides :
That doesn’t make sense. Lemme see if I understood: if a girl pulls away don’t chase. You’re trying to not lose her by chasing and she will pull away more. Leave her be and if she leaves, which is what you DIDNT want, then let her go. That doesn’t make sense. You need to start telling these boys how to GET what they want, not how to let it go.
2026-08-29 04:22:58
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azulynergo
Luis :
If she's strategic, she's not the one.
2026-08-30 14:23:36
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dye88nfnzx06
علي :
Dating itself is a mistake.
2026-08-29 06:23:27
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gneous
gneous :
Equal effort or I'm not interested
2026-08-29 15:21:17
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sensitiveyoungpervert
user00553158653 :
not be chad
2026-08-29 06:52:59
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itsatravisssty
travissssty :
I disagree with just waking away. Ive salvaged many relationships, just give a little more space but slow you're still interested
2026-08-29 08:09:43
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8mycat
8mycat :
Girl that’s a horrible advice because you don’t realize 98% of these cases ends up with ghosting if you act like you suggest.
2026-08-30 06:59:17
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saikman7
J :
A serious person wouldn’t pull away. If they need space, run away
2026-08-29 13:24:47
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michel.but.in.spanish
Michel :
I agree that a lot of men fail by doing that, but how is this not the women’s mistake too? Like, you are telling me that I am meant to start viewing as normal for women to be more withholding all of a sudden with no explanation whatsoever?
2026-08-30 19:21:15
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irish13524
Irish13 :
I block immediately if theres a switch up.
2026-08-29 14:25:03
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onehadronic
The One Hadronic :
Basically just ghost her immediately when she starts acting up. She'll do the same to you anyway.
2026-08-29 21:02:58
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lifethroughtheeyesofai
Niel :
no I think shes weird normally after a first date
2026-08-29 06:16:42
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excalibrate0
Excalibrate :
yeah, but does that actually cause the situation to improve? may as well just ditch them at that point
2026-08-31 23:16:49
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chrisbarter3
chrisbarter3 :
Number one common mistake is trying in the first place 😂
2026-08-30 08:29:25
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adversity254
BeReal :
If it’s off from the first date then don’t bother thinking a second date will change things either
2026-08-31 03:00:31
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llamney
Llamney :
I miss times when people were not playing mind games and just communicate hah
2026-08-31 04:22:42
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a.little.heavy
Snooty :
I think the biggest mistake in dating is buying food on a first date. You could go out to eat with a girl and buy her a nice sandwich for $12. She won’t eat half of it. You won’t ever see her again. I think instead it’s good to meet for a drink at a park or breadsticks from Little Caesars. And then after the date, you can go by yourself and get two sandwiches.
2026-08-30 02:56:36
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himshortforhimothy
Him :
Yes, she's playing a game.
2026-08-31 15:54:38
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windguy82
Jay-C :
I’m happily not in the dating scene but I couldn’t imagine playing all of these mind games. We have completely ruined the art of meeting someone new.
2026-09-06 22:05:23
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factshurtfeelings1
factshurtfeelings1 :
Turning up 😂
2026-08-29 18:50:37
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