@jerrytwise: 👉 Get my free 84-minute self-differentiation workshop to stop auditioning for love in a system that was built to make you fail. Link in bio! You can also join My Road to Self Program, built to separate your true self from their assigned role. You and your sibling grew up in the same house and lived in two different families. They got the benefit of the doubt. You got the file of everything you had ever done wrong. Somewhere in there you decided the difference must have been you. So you have spent adulthood proving otherwise. You overexplain, you overdeliver, and you apologize for taking up room. Every narcissistic family needs a scapegoat, and you were standing closest. The casting was decided before you were old enough to argue. You are allowed to hand the part back. ↳ Getting them out of you means living as yourself instead of the character they wrote. 👉 If you're tired of auditioning for love in a system where you were always cast as the problem, join My Road to Self Program. Link in bio!

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unusualcrayons
𝚄𝚗𝚞𝚜𝚞𝚊𝚕𝙲𝚛𝚊𝚢𝚘𝚗𝚜🖍 :
the golden child (younger) and i (older) are 6½ years apart... my narcissistic mother made him a narcissist too
2026-09-02 21:42:59
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bob159796
bob :
when they caught my sister smoking weed, we had to keep it all hush-hush. When it comes to my brother, they don’t really give a fuck.
2026-09-15 03:33:30
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_stacey_sr
_stacey_sr :
45 years later, I'm still the scapegoat...
2026-09-24 13:47:46
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autumn4455
user4545643051992 :
absolutely
2026-08-30 15:39:45
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stickyourthroat
𝓐𝓰𝓸𝓷𝔂 :
I know exactly what child I am
2026-08-30 12:20:42
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halimaeno0
Hali :
Wow 💔
2026-08-29 22:11:24
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marivel.mv
The Book of Love :
all your videos are making me cry. whyyyyyy?
2026-08-29 21:59:53
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blossom.and.thrive
Blossom.and.Thrive :
There was a hero and a zero.
2026-08-29 20:49:49
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mrsrodrigueztrevino
Gina Rodriguez-Trevino :
I try to explain to ppl that none us grew up in the same house because we all had a different experience. That’s why you can have 2 kids growing up the same way, yet one turns out one way & the other can become the total opposite. Parenting isn’t the same for every child that’s why there’s no good parenting solution. I was the scapegoat, while my sister was the golden child. Our lives are completely different.
2026-09-19 16:04:01
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knowmorebelieveless
knowmorebelieveless :
I was the golden child who turned into the scape goat
2026-09-21 14:17:38
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shanbaseball70
shannon💙💙💙⚾⚾🎧🎧🎧 :
my sister was the golden child and she stole jewelry and money and I'm the one who got blamed. also was told I deserved abuse because of my mouth
2026-08-29 21:49:26
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bindergrinder00
bindergrinder00 :
What about a narcissistic parental childhood where each child would either be the golden child or the scapegoat depending on the mood or situation either parent wanted at that particular moment? My sister and I believed that the other was the golden child. Until we started talking more openly after our Mom passed. Neither of us hated the other, but depending on a circumstance, our Mom would use one of us or the other to get something that she wanted. When our Mom passed, then our Dad started doing the same thing.
2026-08-29 23:27:36
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robert.cristian113
Robert Cristian :
I was sent to live with my grandmother when my sister was born so she can be paid full attention to
2026-09-21 02:13:01
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mr.a.silence
mr.A.Silence :
From Golden Child to a Scapegoat just because I dared to look behind the curtain. Still the best choice of my life.
2026-08-29 20:03:04
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sardiecat
Sardiecat :
So true. All of your posts. Link in your bio isn’t working for me. Is there a link to your therapy program?
2026-08-29 16:36:43
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cocojamescomp
cocojames :
what does it mean when the scapegoat(my brother) and me(golden child) have the better relationship then with other siblings?
2026-09-21 13:58:40
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kodiaksmith86
kodiaksmith86 :
Iam escape goat 🐐
2026-09-10 02:35:19
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reou.g
Reou G. :
👍👍👍wow it so reminds me of my life before teen😞😞😞
2026-09-21 11:01:50
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serpintine217
SERP :
Same action different consequences
2026-10-02 17:32:31
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shrek.2.on.dvd.89
Wildrice :
I’m interested to see if the choosing of the golden child vs the scapegoat has any correlation to the order of birth or gender. I’m noticing anecdotally that it seems to often be the youngest boy chosen as the scapegoat
2026-09-20 15:24:06
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pampersweetsoap
Susannah Rawlinson :
And it will all be paid back to those narc parents with interest when their old 🙂
2026-09-19 09:18:46
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misterkonradk
🔥MRKONRADK🔥 :
My sister and I especially when I explain this to her..and she pretends we had the same experience
2026-09-11 15:12:58
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dayna_dayze_
✨Dayna Dayze🔮 :
So what do I do?
2026-09-05 17:38:08
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alecmarquez73
alecmarquez73 :
My two nephews. One was the golden child and the other was the scapegoat.
2026-09-05 14:24:57
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amandabarco7
Amanda Moy :
I was the golden child , though i was privileged before my siblings eyes it was exhausting to play a role of someone I never was so becoming my true self as an adult made me feel guilty. Also what people don’t know is love is conditional even for the golden child . Love your content Dr.
2026-08-29 19:11:06
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