@conflictish: Our frustration with other people’s ignorance usually points to our own cognitive rigidity and in flexibility. Remember, common sense isn’t common. When you meet someone who lacks common sense, the least you can do is to act like you still have some.

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margaritalazri
titi :
It took me years to learn this. When I did ,life became a lot easier.
2026-09-04 12:39:05
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vtalktv3
VTALK📺3 :
For me, I have to talk to people who don’t have common sense because it’s part of my job. 😂 So when it comes to my personal life, it’s hard for me to have those type of people in my inner circle because I get overstimulated. Your video just gave me a reminder that not everybody you encounter lacks intelligence, but everybody does not have the same appetite or capacity for complexity, abstraction, nuance, psychological analysis, or extended conversation. And recognizing that can save an enormous amount of cognitive energy. So thank you for this reminder. 🙌🏽
2026-09-04 09:50:31
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thatcolesgirl87
Melenated87 :
Wow.. that hit deep. I get so tired of explaining.. and explaining. it doesn't work.
2026-09-03 17:15:51
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constancechisonta2
Constance Chisontac :
The problem is that common sense is not common. Love your content Ryan. 🙏🏽
2026-09-04 04:32:14
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chanelleb_65
ChanelleB_65 :
Thank you!
2026-09-04 13:06:21
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missjacktown
Miss Jackie :
you don't
2026-08-29 21:29:32
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itsmesix
itsmesix :
“Speak to the level of your audience.” - It works ❣️
2026-08-29 17:40:00
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black_widow54
user2350417145932 :
this was definitely me at one point!!! thank you for the clarification ☺️
2026-08-29 16:48:19
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sonyaholston2
sonyagwenay :
I've learned to nod and say ok, I see. and let it go. it saves my peace ✌🏽😊
2026-08-30 22:37:24
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caribsun
Caribsun 🇯🇲 :
I learned this years ago, it’s been the most peaceful time of my life. Sometimes I do catch myself wanting to correct them but I just say “ok” and keep it moving.
2026-08-29 18:07:21
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thehoodaristocrat
Poodie Pie :
I absolutely do not challenge them. I’m not wasting g my brain cells or energy. It doesn’t threaten me.
2026-08-29 20:20:03
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bylisecheeks
Lisecheeks :
Yep talk to your audience at the level of their understanding.
2026-08-29 22:53:30
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awyatt0103
Anita Wyatt :
This is excellent advice
2026-09-01 13:39:20
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fireflyv5
FireFlyV :
WOW THAT IS TRUE 😂😏🥰
2026-08-30 01:29:12
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letmekneadu
FRAN-C ❌ :
Thank You!
2026-09-03 23:58:05
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bikerbabe1959
Biker babe :
I never try to negotiate with a "toddler"
2026-09-01 14:11:20
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marthal315
M💕L365 :
Yeah that is good. But it’s hard to speak to them at their level
2026-08-30 06:45:46
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herd9999
Chrisherd :
The Buddha once said let go or be dragged. Meaning your peace is more important.
2026-08-30 15:27:22
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brownsugarandlemon
Brown Sugar and Lemon Tees :
that made me laugh so hard. this is a great question. you have to speak to them on their level
2026-08-30 12:28:21
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brenz_goldfish
brenz_goldfish :
Just talk to them 🤣🤣😂
2026-08-30 02:08:01
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valjohn1
valjohn1 :
Whoa! That’s a good one!
2026-08-30 00:38:41
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thechelseasuite
thechelseasuite :
It’s so hard though
2026-08-29 23:36:40
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pams_peaceful_porch
Pam's Peace :
I don't bother talking to them.
2026-08-30 14:55:32
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tullington
Queen of Kindness :
I'm quite good at this!!!
2026-08-30 13:48:38
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l_ovebug
Little Ordinary Things :
I’ve been the village idiot for a while then. 😳
2026-08-29 17:23:08
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