Emily | Abuse Education
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nai ☆ :
Yes!!! Thank you I feel seen
2026-10-21 00:48:44
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Meshugana :
and then when you finally do leave and not tolerating the behaviour you're the villain
2026-10-20 16:14:11
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Sylvia Longmire :
They hate themselves, so they think you're stupid for loving them.
2026-08-30 07:26:28
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Crystal✨ :
That’s why the person that gets away is idolized because they walk away as opposed to the one that stays and gets devalued
2026-08-29 23:09:12
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sabamdandia :
Every time he treated me poorly, I asked him why he doesn’t treat his mother and sister the same way. I would also ask if he’d want his daughter to be treated the same way he would treat me and his answer was always no. He knew what he was doing.
2026-08-30 00:46:32
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😊 :
The mind fckery is so destabilizing that it will wreck your nervous system if you stay too long. ☹️
2026-08-30 03:23:56
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Miranda R :
100%. You get put down over and over until you’re depressed and feel worthless & then they use that as evidence of how little you get done, how you’ve let your looks go, how you aren’t fun and vibrant and spontaneous any more. They make you despise them and then they blame you that you’re distant and you don’t want them “authentically” & that you’re faking with them.
2026-09-09 23:55:18
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paula🫧 :
They walk thru life completely devoid of human emotion, dealing with what you’re explaining was so dehumanizing and changed me forever to be honest
2026-08-29 20:50:16
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Diami | self first • pilates :
They’re simply impossible to deal with. It’s madness
2026-08-29 20:19:24
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kaidehowden :
She flat out said to me once "maybe you should look into why you keep letting someone treat you this way"
2026-08-31 05:36:05
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Harriet Berholtz :
He told me he would never want his sister to be with somebody who treated her the way he treated me
2026-08-30 00:21:33
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Gabriella :
Any time I’d take a solo trip he’d fight with me a day prior just to set the mood 🥰
2026-09-01 15:12:00
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Muhhwie :
Like we think loving them harder or forgiving them will make them see how much we care, but they see it as a sign of weakness the way they justify the abuse is literally insane.
2026-08-31 14:09:59
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UpAndAdam :
I got tired of being disrespected by someone i lowered my standards for. Deuces.
2026-08-30 18:37:55
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@powerlineroads :
🔥 Narcissists project their Hate for themselves onto their partner, as a trauma defense! R U N !!
2026-08-30 05:00:29
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Logically_Petty :
I didn’t even know until our divorce that he didn’t even graduate high school. He got his GED. Meanwhile,I have two bachelors a masters plus 30. Now his degradation towards my education and career makes sense.
2026-08-30 14:48:31
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skosula42 :
i'm so upset with myself for letting them treat me so poorly. that's not who I am. why did I ever let myself be treated that way?
2026-08-31 23:55:26
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tatywannapaty :
Dated a grandiose narcissist then covert narcissist right after how did I end up here
2026-09-04 10:47:57
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Meg :
anything you do...your good days, your bad days, loving them, hating them, whatever you are or arent....just gives them something to use against you
2026-09-01 07:08:43
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beenthatgal02 :
Do men actually think of it fully in this strategic way or does it just happen without them noticing they are doing it to you… serious question because why put so much effort into hating someone
2026-08-31 14:18:23
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TeekTalks :
It took me a long time to recognize the look on my ex wife's face at the very end was literal contempt. And a little bit longer after that to realize the how part of "how could she keep doing this?".... was literally my tolerance and forgiveness, it didn't prove anything to her, other than I will put up with it. And b/c I was willing to tolerate it, it only made her respect me even less
2026-08-29 23:49:50
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onlinewurld :
they hate themselves so they hate that we could love them. it disgusts them
2026-08-31 16:00:45
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Michael | Attachment & Healing :
I've dated two narcissists
2026-08-30 01:17:37
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peaches :
My favorite is when you become super deppressed and fall apart and they do the bare minimum like show up one time out of ten and then say they discarded you because you became so deppressed and a mess and never apreciate how they just became a care taker. …. Dude you were cheating on me? Screaming at me and doing worse stuff I’m not gonna trauma dump on tik tok…. But yeah damn sorry I spent too many days on the couch bro, must of given you the ick to see me really ‘let myself go’
2026-09-02 13:54:23
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wilma :
EXACTLY. like… the way you explained it… i couldn’t verbalise it for so long
2026-08-29 19:56:20
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