@healingwithemilyg: 0:15 How they use you staying against you 1:00 They evaluate you from your position in the relationship 1:40 They treat you that way because they think it’s what you’re worth 1:54 Why this is so maddening #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticabuserecovery #narcissisticrelationship #emotionalabuse #HealingJourney
The mind fckery is so destabilizing that it will wreck your nervous system if you stay too long. ☹️
2026-08-30 03:23:56
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sabamdandia :
Every time he treated me poorly, I asked him why he doesn’t treat his mother and sister the same way. I would also ask if he’d want his daughter to be treated the same way he would treat me and his answer was always no. He knew what he was doing.
2026-08-30 00:46:32
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Michael | Attachment & Healing :
I've dated two narcissists
2026-08-30 01:17:37
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Annalisa :
mine would flip between "you don't assert yourself and you have no self-worth or confidence" and "I only cheated on you ONCE, a loyal woman would have tried a lot harder to stay". there is no way to win
2026-08-30 00:29:31
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Crystal✨ :
That’s why the person that gets away is idolized because they walk away as opposed to the one that stays and gets devalued
2026-08-29 23:09:12
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sam :
Do they genuinely know they are a horrible person tho?
2026-08-30 02:46:21
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paula 🫧 :
They walk thru life completely devoid of human emotion, dealing with what you’re explaining was so dehumanizing and changed me forever to be honest
2026-08-29 20:50:16
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Wellnessbydiami :
They’re simply impossible to deal with. It’s madness
2026-08-29 20:19:24
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TeekTalks :
It took me a long time to recognize the look on my ex wife's face at the very end was literal contempt. And a little bit longer after that to realize the how part of "how could she keep doing this?"....
was literally my tolerance and forgiveness, it didn't prove anything to her, other than I will put up with it. And b/c I was willing to tolerate it, it only made her respect me even less
2026-08-29 23:49:50
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Casandra | Narc Decoder 🧠🔍 :
Very well said. Thank you.
2026-08-29 21:36:32
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Erica Campbell :
This literal demon told me that I must have low self esteem to be with him just playing in my face 😭
2026-08-29 22:18:27
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Sara Auxilio :
Omg!! YES!!! I felt like I was going crazy
2026-08-29 22:42:43
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user6345143740769 :
They can respect this ✌🏽 or not who cares buh bye 😂
2026-08-29 22:58:36
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Harriet Berholtz :
He told me he would never want his sister to be with somebody who treated her the way he treated me
2026-08-30 00:21:33
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wilma :
EXACTLY. like… the way you explained it… i couldn’t verbalise it for so long
2026-08-29 19:56:20
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Jared :
She treated her dogs better than me
2026-08-30 00:59:16
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flower_blooms4 :
Yes! It’s maddening and feels like I’m a chicken w my head cut off. I keep trying to stay on topic with what we’re talking about and show him why he’s actions are just so wrong but he can’t hear it. He has his own version of reality and it’s so fucked
2026-08-29 22:57:01
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