@unbreakingproject: The motivation to cheat is internal. The affair is not about you.

❌ Steve The Phantom Johnson :

I had an affair years ago. It started out like that but her and I fell in love with each other and divorced our spouses and got married and have been married over 39 years now

Mariela :

Even if they told me they loved them? Even if I saw in the messages them telling each other they loved each other?

shaneatchison3 :

Affairs sometimes happen & if you're betrayed, end the relationship immediately & move on with your life.

user895235347233 :

No reason to have the affair- just leave

Maja K. :

The statement in the video aptly describes the addictive nature of affairs (validation, escapism, the thrill). However, it falls short by claiming that genuine feelings were never involved between the two people over the years. The feelings are often real—it is simply that unfaithful avoidant types lack the capacity to act in a mature and integrated manner afterward.

ED :

If there’s a reason to cheat . That marriage needs work . Sometimes if marriage is broken the affair happens not intentionally

seanwilliamson750 :

which one was it for you? or both or all the above just curious

Eazy_E60 :

Oh there’s a lot more risk than that.

Landen Ansell :

I couldn’t do anything right, that’s how I figured it out

Emma & trixe :

Said “it was exciting!” SMH

Randy Griffith :

Why would my wife meet her High School lover 15yrs after we have been married then I find out 10more yrs later ?????? And she all of a sudden has amnesia and can’t remember anything about meeting him 3-4 times at a hotel (she did admit that )

Dan :

I just let my wifey. But that was a lot of communication and compersion. Been actually great

matthew daugherty891 :

everything on tic tok is fake af

_nowayjay_ :

The escape from reality and the desire to have a fantasy. Typically a plot in movies and books but typically hidden in the background of the plot.

❌ Crossroads ╋━ :

It burns every thing to the ground! Truth is like cream!!! Always rises to the top! It’s a matter of time!

Wedge :

Just come home safely.

selfaware :

No lies told!

gutterman454 :

ericprestly :

hi. how. are. to. nite.

CargoCaptain 👨‍✈️ :

I told her no strings attached.. she divorced 😏him

A J :

I wouldn’t know…being deceptive is not something that I’m familiar with

1.bad.66.300 :

judgment day is coming

Dale Yearnhardt :

I disagree for most part I mean, that is true. In some cases. I think this person falls in love or find someone that has everything their husband or partner doesn’t and they thrive on that and they find connection. The reason it never last usually is because if they end into marriage a relationship for that person they realize quickly that person is the same relationship energy fades away, just as fast

Kaotic Ghost :

Yeah the high fades pretty quick.