me one time wearing a mini skirt and a crop tshirt pretending to be ethiopian when they spoke somali to me 😭😭
2026-08-30 02:30:08
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kikikiki1991 :
Big sister advice: unless it’s going to have an adverse effect on your life e.g physical safety, emotional abuse and any level of danger, please learn to be comfortable around Somali elders no matter what you wear, girls. We don’t learn this in our community because of the perpetual infantilisation of women but if youre over 18, you’re ADULTS. This means learning to communicate agency to others through your actions. Pretending to be Ethiopian, looking physically uncomfortable and straight up avoiding other Somalis means you’re signalling lack of power, lack of agency and ironically, this is how you attract more people trying to police you because you’re not giving grown woman standing on business. Somalis respond to authority so you need to signal authority. This doesn’t mean be super close to conservative Somalis btw, it just means treat them normal and don’t run away
2026-08-30 14:11:50
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☭ :
one asked if I was somali IN somali while I was literally no hijab shorts and crop and I almost responded in somali but i said no in the end💔💔
2026-08-31 00:58:47
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🎀 :
Life is too short dress the way you want and have fun
2026-08-30 16:22:50
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Luci (Magiks version) :
To the point I could give less of a f about Somali elders bro
2026-08-30 20:21:33
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jas :
guys little help how do i pretend to wear a hijab
2026-08-31 15:14:15
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estelle :
they are always spying on me for no reason
2026-08-30 15:58:36
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88clubcar :
i always say im ethopian and act dumb lol
2026-08-31 14:12:38
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Hudie🌸 :
how did they react im curious 😭
2026-08-29 20:02:30
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🗿 :
Na fr me everytime i walk past south asian aunties and uncles in my town hoping they dont recognise me
2026-08-30 21:02:08
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hanaan: :
You get it
2026-08-29 22:22:32
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aliya.alas :
Relatable
2026-08-29 22:43:11
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Safra (Joy) the divine yellow :
My shorts aren’t even that short 😂😂😂 I might be lucky bc most of them know me since I was small and I’m very honest and I’m essentially the same person they always known so I don’t have too much trouble . The trouble comes from the parasocial ones
2026-09-01 20:02:35
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hehehe :
I’m safe since I’m always mistaken for any ethnicity BUT Somali😭💀🤣
2026-08-31 18:40:11
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Wazirada of Wafflelati :
Wadnahey dhag leeeeeee frrrr
2026-08-31 09:24:07
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hana :
I get so nervous but then I clock they probs dont even think im somali 😂
2026-08-31 01:19:28
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Trytobefunny :
One of them took a picture of me once😭😭
2026-09-03 15:32:57
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