@drsarahhensley: People who cheat don’t usually see themselves as the bad guy. To justify the betrayal, they create a narrative where YOU are. It doesn’t excuse the cheating. But understanding how people justify betrayal matters. And so does creating more transparency and accountability BEFORE trust is broken. That’s exactly what @Verafied App is working to bring into relationships. #infidelity #betrayal #relationshippsychology #cheating #relationships
I did not justify it. My spirit was willing to resist but my flesh was weak. Literally heard internal screaming from my soul but my brain was just saying “screw it, no one will know”. I aligned with the devil and committed adultery against God and and my wife. Mine was a result of years of narcissistic abuse and me traveling for work.
2026-08-30 08:42:18
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Robby :
These men whining that they went with out s*x for months never can imagine how they actually caused the problem to begin with.
2026-08-30 01:31:56
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B U N 🚫 〽️ :
So the simplified version of this video is if they make you the 'bad guy/gurl' they're cheating
2026-08-30 08:49:14
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1131crd :
If your spouse is starting fights with you…
2026-08-29 22:34:24
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BEI :
They also said they made a bad choice with the spouse but they can’t do anything cause the family is involved, money…they feel trapped and is for this they justify rewarding themselves outside
2026-08-30 08:32:22
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Dan :
If your wife doesn’t want to be intimate for 5 months or go to marriage counselling, then yes, I certainly justified it. And when I got found out, I admitted everything and told her everything, with no apologies for how lonely I felt. Except that I regretted her finding out because I didn’t want to hurt her.
2026-08-29 21:11:37
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Sheirjbenwiahwbw :
Cheaters are liars and they will lie to themselves as well about what cheating is and justify it
2026-08-30 07:11:54
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CalienteElHorno :
Tell me something I didn’t know. Cheaters are loophole masters; atleast in their minds
2026-08-29 23:28:00
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D.J. Steele :
let's not forget the gaslighting once the act becomes long term
2026-08-30 06:30:11
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Saved by Grace :
Sounds right
2026-08-30 07:51:26
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𝒢𝒶𝒷𝓇𝒾𝑒𝓁𝓁𝑒 :
How are we the bad guys? It makes no sense. We didn’t do anything to deserve to be treated that way.
2026-08-29 23:23:11
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Eliza :
those in the comments but what if, if, if if. Splitting up is an option and cheating is an option. You chose to cheat.
2026-08-29 23:04:54
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Next_timebitch :
My ex used to stand on never cheating on his girlfriends. Which he didn’t - if he was in a relationship with a sidepiece he would have nothing to do with me, his wife, *for years* and while I was pregnant.
2026-08-30 01:10:42
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🚨🚨🚨🚨🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🚨🚨🚨 :
Maybe she IS the bad guy
2026-08-29 21:57:00
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Aimee :
"You should be happy for me, Aimee. She makes me happy."
2026-08-30 05:56:01
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Danielle💕 :
This is so fucking true! They have to pin the blame on you to convince themselves you deserve it so they don't have to feel guilt or shame. They'll never self reflect to see that THEY were the ones with the character defects.
2026-08-30 05:56:45
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Aubrey Lynn :
And you will keep finding out more !!! 5 months out . It doesn’t get better.they play Prince charming for a few weeks and then try to blame anything and everything on you to justify the cheating. Please just leave.
2026-08-30 04:04:44
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beliverinlove :
why. can't. the. partner just tell you the truth. leave.
2026-08-30 03:56:57
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sarastosse1 :
Isn’t this kind of obvious? Thats why you should always be aware of a person that easily takes the victim role or somehow always is the victim in all their stories
2026-08-30 01:33:38
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TeekTalks :
Well psychological manipulation requires psychological manipulation
2026-08-29 23:30:59
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Bryan Reed :
We always justify our sins to ourselves. Always.
2026-08-29 23:24:44
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JennieOfAllTrades :
ooofff... this makes me so mad
2026-08-29 23:08:37
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Roy :
hope i don't run in to another cheater ever again 🥰🥰
2026-08-30 05:08:01
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TheAccidentalFeminist :
What about the psyche of the other person? What are they thinking when they knowingly are sleeping with someone that is in a relationship?
2026-08-30 07:26:13
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user7610012753011 :
My ex husband never apologized or showed remorse, and left me for her. He defended it the whole time - saying he shouldn’t be punished for having needs, that he should be able to be/want to be with other women, and suddenly after 11 years he rewrote the whole thing as a bad marriage. It’s been 3 years, and he’s never acknowledged it or even apologized for hurting me. He just went cold.
2026-08-30 03:09:57
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