@lishapishaluvs2read: Replying to @C this is why i encourge women to get into trades, get that certification, demand that raise! it dont even have to be a degree! Statistically, women who are finacially independent are less likely to be abused becuase a man cannot use that against you. its not easy, burr its time for us to do the hard things!!

Nyxspectra :

I'm in a similar situation right now. We have a child together. I have a plan, he doesn't know what's about to happen in October.

HipsterGaming :

I have no where to go and he's trying to keep me from getting a car

Ra567898 :

Also, as a parent, always remind your daughters that they can always come home if they get into a bad situation with a partner and you’ll figure it out together. Remind them often. I know not all of us have this to rely on, but if we can change it for our daughters!!

Ya mama :

I immediately caught on to him saying “I’m assuming that’s the only place you could’ve went” in his voicemail referencing your mom’s house. He thought you had no one, but jokes on him, you have yourself!!! I’m so happy for you!! 💞💞

Joceee :

I always say babies are a trap

Phillybluu :

Every woman should always have F U money in the cut.

this-is-my-skatelife :

Left in 2009, homeowner in 2013 🫶✨✨✨✨

Nique Marie🥵 :

Did the same shyt to my bd i go approved for a apt the same week he was tryna kick me out with my kids and I was paying all the bills he wasn’t there so wen he kicked me out that rent did not get paid so he got evicted that week two evictions within two weeks now he can’t get shyt in his name 😭😭

mo 💭 :

what he didn’t know was i can make something outta nothing. 😉

KimiLynn :

Yes, this happened to me I surprised him and left the country. 😂

Sherri Black :

I filed for divorce and moved into the other room. I let him fall face down in front of the judge who made him pay me to move out.

Retrograded Life :

YES. I planned for a YEAR and didn’t let in until me and the kids were safe in our new home. He was blindsided. Never again!!

KPwithlove🪶🇺🇸 :

Exactly!! I started a business right before I divorced him. I was scared but I did it anyway. And that same month the divorced finalized I tripled my income. Never looked back!!

Polished Roo :

everyone, in every circumstance needs an escape route.

allie_d :

First…. Your skin looks amazing! That glow!!! 😍

gem_ah_nye :

I grew up being abused physically and emotionally by my dad. One time he tried to strangle me to death. the one time my mom actually stepped in broke a laundry basket over his head which cut his ear was the only thing that Drew his attention away from me so that I could get out the front door when my mom asked where I was going. he screamed to stop babying me. my mom got in the car and came and picked me up and that was always her excuse. "we have no where to go" but she wasn't the one being abused

KrystinaR33d :

First it’s the distrust that lets him say he wants cameras in the house … then it’s the “worry “ your gonna be hurt or stranded so they follow your phone … then it’s the financial abuse when you have no money & ask for some … they want you to explain why and what … or they end up buying what you needed and never giving you access to money - claiming “I give you everything you need “

SholaFash⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️ :

Every woman should be taught that there’s a big difference in the way that a man treats you when he thinks you need him versus when he thinks you don’t need him. This is why some men deliberately prey on a woman who appears to have a weak support network or try their hardest to sabotage & isolate her.

C :

Yes! I finally left my ex the same way. I wasn’t working during our relationship. He knew I wasn’t happy, but couldn’t do better. I packed up and left while he was out of town. He still thought I would come back!

Holly :

Would you be able to share more about how you figured out your work/money situation? 😭

jessica 🇬🇭 :

Loading….🩺🫁🩺🫁🩺 :

And he thinks you won’t leave. I am struggling but I left anyway. My rent is paid and food in my fridge. I’ll figure out the rest.

Andria :

Yep I always told my daughter to never rely on a man. And she been listening! Her baby daddy tried and still tries to get her trapped. But the more she been independent she is distancing herself more and more. I hope eventually she goes no contact for her daughter’s sake.

Sebastian Bach the dog :

I grew up hearing my mom say, “Always be independent. Never depend on anyone. And never let anyone humiliate you, because you’ll always have a place to come back to.”

MICHE :

Even when you're financially independent their audacity and entitlement makes them believe you won't leave or will eventually come back. no matter how much a man has done, appeared to care, once I discovered and accepted that it was for themselves and access to me vs my best interest, I've walked away. there is a peace, safety and freedom that nothing compares to it.