i was happy the first 6months and then I started missing him ...he was finally and sexusl abusive . 20 years . and then I hate myself for missing him ...our kids say I miss the good parts of him an di forget the bad . my councilor said my brain diascoshated from the pain to wait for the pleasure so I crave him🌸👌🌹
2026-09-13 01:16:58
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Michele :
I agree! ONE of the hardest things I've been through. But I survived and came out STRONGER
2026-09-11 17:23:28
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Amanda Rae ✨ :
Same for me but it took me about a year or so to notice it was the best thing that ever happened to me. I would have never left so I’m thankful god removed him from my life. I found my self worth again ❤️
2026-08-30 17:18:07
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Mamacita :
I understand and agree with everything except the God allows part. God gave us free will. He doesn’t allow or not allow. He weeps when we weep but it’s all up to us to make our own way. When we acknowledge the power within us through him we make better decisions. He is not responsible for saving us. He gave us the power through him to do it ourselves.
2026-08-30 16:29:11
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Albert Lanier :
AMEN...I would like to investigate healing of a massive trauma bond that has recently happened. I have been doing my "due dilligence" but find myeslf caught in moments of chaos & upheaval.
2026-08-30 15:53:22
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Candice Thomas :
Here’s the thing tho. It’s absolutely devastating even when you DO want it.
2026-08-30 00:28:04
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randiramsey77 ❌️ :
I think the reason it's so devastating for me is because he bought a house and put it on our land. So i get to watch him move on with his life while I'm picking up all the pieces.
2026-08-30 02:23:01
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heatherflanders61 :
Absolutely 💯 I was married for 24 years and I was completely broken 💔 after he told me that he wanted a divorce and I unfortunately started dating right after my divorce just to make the pain go away but know that I have been divorced for two years iam so great full that he let me go, I bought my own house and I live such a beautiful peaceful life ❤️know iam the love of my own life ❤️
2026-09-04 00:39:04
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💖Erica💖 :
I am currently splitting up from my husband and I have felt every emotion I could feel. At the end of the day we don’t make each other happy and even though we love each other I know that in order for me to grow in my faith (he is a non believer) and to grow as a person this has to happen and I know that even not knowing what is going to happen I have to do this! ❤️
2026-08-30 19:37:41
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❌TammyRalston520❌ :
Amen, I spent 34 Loooooong years in such a BAD marriage & praying for PEACE every single day… that I finally accepted the fact that God would take care of me NO MATTER what & for as Looooong as I had prayed for PEACE, I could NOT question how he decided to answer my prayers!!!
2026-08-30 10:32:06
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mrbob :
What happens when u want out but u don't want to leave your child it sucks
2026-09-08 04:36:40
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Brandon Rodrigues :
It took me 6 years but I love our relationship now & I respect her more than ever
2026-08-30 00:10:36
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Patio Oasis :
I would’ve stayed FOREVER! She did things that changed that word to NEVER.
2026-08-31 02:50:23
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AB :
That comment is exactly the way I fell now after 9 months of being put thru hell with a pathological liar even after 30yrs together. I finally woke up. Thank You God ...
2026-08-30 16:18:19
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beautifuljourney_betsy :
Amen!
2026-08-30 01:00:50
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Valerie Earl :
So true 💯
2026-08-30 15:30:38
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Candice Thomas :
I love my husband but I also know we are terrible together and have been for 20 years. So yes it’s devastating even tho I initiated it
2026-08-30 00:28:58
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pinktornado💖 :
Yup
2026-09-01 17:49:44
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kayhureaux :
Amen
2026-09-06 03:19:28
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Gottaluvit :
Ive been though some shit over the last 3 months of this journey. But being on the outside and seeing the routine i was living for the last 15 yrs. Im greatful to be single and work on myself.
2026-08-30 00:08:44
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Charles mills :
Amen
2026-08-30 01:07:55
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Sandy :
I’m doing healing right now as I am currently separated 5 months and divorce proceedings just started. Married 37 years, together 42 since 16 and 17 years old. My husband without a doubt is an undiagnosed covert narcissist based on everything he has done throughout the decades together. The betrayal and discard nearly did me in. I’m working hard on healing. I have decades of trauma inflicted on me by a person that I love deeply and yet, have no idea who he really is. Healing has been brutal but I’m giving myself grace. I am sitting with all the pain as it comes. I’m just now starting to feel a bit better and relief. Those mixed emotions, ups and downs are tough, but I’m feeling relief. Praying the divorce and eventually the sale of the marital home goes smoothly and quickly. What a mess my life has been. Leaving me was the best thing he ever could have done for me.
2026-08-31 09:00:48
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user4972638215773 :
It’s been a year and a half and I’m still broken but I will serve
2026-08-30 19:18:42
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pennyvasquez1 :
I’m struggling, I can’t make sense of it…. It makes me feel like I’m not going to make it!!!!
2026-08-30 00:59:52
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