Grieving someone who is still alive, just because their effort died, hits differently.
2026-09-16 14:00:43
575
cha :
can’t repost, just know i was here
2026-10-11 13:05:22
0
:
I still remember every little detail of how he used to take care of me in the beginning. I always told myself that it was only like that at first, and yet, I was right all along.
2026-10-07 19:33:12
5
轴心✧ :
I can't post it so I know I'm just here.
2026-09-19 08:22:40
127
grace xd :
i remember how he loves to reassure me, he loves to answer the question i'd been asking everyday, he loves talking to me in chats or in person, also he loves taking me on a date before without even asking, but now it's different—he doesn't even bother to reassure me anymore, he won't talk to me when he was mad, he doesn't like to answer the question i used to asked all the time anymore, he seems so distance in chat, i just miss how it used to be, he used to be so loving boyfriend until avoidant gets him—i still love him and it won't change because he changed, i just hope he finds his way back to where we get used to be
2026-09-17 21:27:19
83
. :
I miss the old me, I'm sorry baby if I hurt you :( I'm so disappointed of myself po.
2026-09-20 13:35:43
19
jay jay :
someone told me that maybe the person i’m experiencing rn is who they truly are and not the person who i first met
2026-09-19 16:26:20
43
୨ৎ :
ansakett mo ate haa
2026-09-27 08:08:12
2
chisaki :
Yes, it may be my fault. But, the wya he shows and acts differently to me to others is breaking and aching my feelings too. Because the person that made me feel loved once, became the person I feared of. The fear of losing a person, the hurtful quiet things they did. Now that I'm here, questioning if anyone would actually love me? Slowly losing interest in love, because of one single confession.
2026-09-25 16:09:42
10
d1fnot.ashh :
u were so consistent in the beginning that i never had a reason to believe things would eventually go wrong.
then, slowly u became someone i barely recognized. and i kept wondering what happened to the person i first met, the one who made me feel wanted and loved.
i actually miss the old u, i miss the old us, when u genuinely loved me.
but i finally realized, maybe that person was never really u. maybe it was just the version of urself u showed me while u were still trying to impress me.
2026-09-16 15:49:23
8
maeii :
grieving someone who is still alive hits differently when it’s not their presence you lost, but the effort they once gave. they’re still here, but the care, consistency, and connection slowly disappeared, leaving you to mourn something that never really had a goodbye.
2026-09-21 12:08:56
9
·urluvv^᪲᪲᪲ :
You were so consistent in the beginning that I never had a reason to believe things would eventually go wrong.
Then, slowly, you became someone I barely recognized. And I kept wondering what happened to the person I first met, the one who made me feel wanted and loved.
I actually miss the old you. I miss the old us, when you genuinely loved me, wanted to talk to me, and actually made an effort without me having to ask for.
But I finally realized.....maybe that person was never really you. Maybe it was just the version of yourself you showed me while you were still trying to impress me.
2026-10-06 11:08:17
1
Ncboii :
Sana tignan nyo muna ang point of view ng isa kasi hindi nyo alam na nauubos na pala sila Kakabigay ng lahat ng effort nila. Kahit na hindi nyo ibalik yung effort na ibinigay sainyo, unti unting nakaka drain yun. Then bigla kayo mag sasabi na nag bago kami or wala ng effort, binigay ko naman na yung lahat ko kaya please understand na hindi palaging full battery. Maybe pag nakita nyo na parang drained na, maybe it's the time na kayo naman ang mag effort para marecharge ulit. sana kaya nyo rin ibigay yung lahat nyo. ang hirap sobra ibigay yung lahat. binigay ko nmn lahat ko, pero bakit nung na drained ako parang kulang na kulang ka. binigay ko naman na yung buong ako. I'm trying to regain myself ule to give you my all ule. pero bakit hindi nyo naiintindihan, bakit parang wala lang lahat ng effort ko kahit na wala ng natira sakin. Iniwan nalang ako nung hindi na ako makapag bigay gaya ng pagbigay ko ng effort dati.
2026-10-03 18:20:39
2
sk_i :
sana maintindihan nya na nasasaktan din ako
2026-09-25 16:37:18
11
ma da pa ka :
does the burden of effort lies in the hands of the man in a relationship?
2026-09-19 04:06:21
2
ᜈᮤᜃᮤᜆ ᜋᮤ :
2026-09-12 02:33:11
2
rai :
can't repost haha
2026-09-20 13:15:32
2
𝓟 :
2026-09-14 02:47:11
2
Llzxgtas. :
Happy late 3 months babyyy,sorry ha hindi tayo umabot ng ng ganito,1 month lang nakaya natin eh,sorry din babyy ha na iniwan kita nang walang rason nakakasawa na kase ang ugali mo ei:( lagi kanalang nagsisinungaling tas may kalowkey na pala sa ibang grade,i love youu babyy and i miss you somuchhh i wish you didnt change that day,i miss the old version and sweet version of you babyyy
2026-09-21 14:38:34
2
GRapes|🍇 :
new environment daw eh, normal lang daw Yan sa relationship eh. everything has a reason daw eh. didaw nag bago pagmamahal nya saakin, pero yung actions lang daw. (ede sana una palang dimona pinarandam saakin yun, Sabi mo kailangan ko mag Sabi nang nararamdaman ko pero nung sinabi ko, parang Wala lang sayo. Sabi mo naiintidahan moko pero bakit ganun parin? kapagod pag ganto nalang palagi. ginawa ko naman lahat, para ma ayos relationship natin kung saan natutunan ko nang Hindi gawin Yung mga bagay na dimo gusto. At duon kana din nag bago.
2026-09-22 00:17:56
2
🙁 :
I said to him that why are you like this, you've change, but he said "It's also your fault why I changed" yess people make mistake but he make a mistake to and I didn't even change myself it's so unfair
2026-09-19 08:41:23
4
causeidontknowificancompete :
2026-09-15 07:41:11
2
bheybhie :
2026-09-11 20:38:18
2
hera :
2026-08-30 05:25:20
2
ash :
honestly, it's pretty normal to change a person their behavior or whatsoever, because people really change through times and all u have to do is learn their new version of themselves—I'm not saying to tolerate the bad behavior of him/her, just learn her new changes as we grow older🙂
2026-09-22 11:28:05
1
To see more videos from user @scorpio.7771, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.