@jdot3439: how i turned my low effort boyfriend into a high effort boyfriend #relationshipgoals #relationshipadvice #relationshiptips #boyfriend #datingadvice

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kendallzclothes
ken 🪽 :
this is beautiful but it’s also making me angry that i’d even have to teach them 😔
2026-08-31 09:58:08
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naiswervin
Swerviana :
This is very mature & this is literally the example of teaching someone how to treat you. My bf had low effort energy , but idk why I can’t get past the fact that if he REALLY loved me , he wouldn’t show low effort 🤷🏽‍♀️
2026-08-31 12:49:19
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emmyanamariah
Emmyana :
This is true cuz men are not born Prince charming straight out the womb 😭
2026-09-01 11:37:35
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sussrodent
Stinky little guy :
I actually tried this. he just felt good about himself for doing less
2026-08-31 07:56:41
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mala...chi
Malachiᥫ᭡ :
That time you would have found another one
2026-08-30 18:39:12
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saraa_.lee
saritaaa🥀 :
Why do we have to do reverse psychology on them for them to do ANYTHING 😂sounds draining. I already have 2 kids, def not looking for a third
2026-08-31 23:17:13
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silvyaa37
silvy-aa :
This doesn’t make sense to me.. honestly..
2026-08-30 23:21:09
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vixenkatharos
~Katbliqn~ :
How do I get him to lead more he often lets me control and lead everything and sometimes I just want him to make the decisions or tell me what we’re gonna do
2026-08-31 07:04:37
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yayaglows
yaya 🩷💞 :
the first one is so true. my boyfriend told me once that sometimes things for me feel like a checklist, bc tbh i did complain lot. it hurt to hear it but it was true. i turned it around and appreciated the little things that soon turned into big things.
2026-08-30 22:15:21
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mamdaninum1fan
Ur mom :
This is so mature and I do this too w my mansss. Life is hard if u make it hard. So why give him a hard time over dumb things? If he’s not moving funny in a relationship w u, then why be insecure abt it? And ppl will read these and think ts is weird. Like no it’s not! It’s a mature relationship that requires compromise!! And not a lot ppl can understand that I feel like.
2026-08-31 05:26:57
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gay_for_peanut_butter
Emelia :
Hate having to ask tho
2026-08-31 20:56:39
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missnosyy
MissNosy 💋 :
I do this naturally and it makes every guy I hadchase. You always want them to think they are being the man and your submissive even if you’re not make it like it their idea and it never fails me 🥰 I always get whatever I want. But that’s also bc I naturally would never chase a man, I like being alone 😂
2026-08-31 22:23:11
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jed1ah_dwb
yvng_j.d :
If it doesn’t make sense to yall, good luck finding your dream man who can read your mind and whom you don’t have to communicate any issues with ever 😂
2026-08-31 20:51:18
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27virona
27virona :
“Why men love bitches” just finished this book.. our relationship is heading into a better direction
2026-08-31 02:28:03
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sinayah.dorce
Nayah :
Chyle anyways what’s on the stove tn ?
2026-08-31 22:33:33
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hyqzxc
hyqzxc :
Real. If you text me “wyd” “Gn” or just short slang abbreviations of words instead of taking the time and effort to text the proper word and phrase then you will get the simplest and driest response. I’m not gonna put effort in texting you if you can’t put effort to text properly.
2026-08-31 20:54:58
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rell4rell_
RellRell :
Does this make me emotional if I send my girl this? Am I going to have consequences
2026-08-31 03:57:27
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kbdelaia
kbdelaia :
No one’s a mind reader, we have to teach ourselves/ others how we should be treated. Now I’m not saying hold their hand either but at least give them something to work with
2026-08-31 14:49:54
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kroxxxroadx
𝐲𝐚𝐤𝐬𝐡𝐚 ☽𖤐☾ :
i’m so tired of teaching him everything i don’t know what do to anymore
2026-09-01 00:51:31
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isheanesu82dl
ISHEANESU MCDONALD CHAPFIKA :
Oh i like this
2026-08-31 05:59:57
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lambatman69
Mateo🧟 :
Smart woman
2026-08-31 17:07:58
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blamegvnchy
blamegvnchy🫟 :
w woman
2026-08-30 12:15:17
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tr3tailanchor
Abi 💙 :
What if he doesn’t do anything?
2026-09-07 02:30:20
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tinsworld8
Tinsworld :
Is there a book on this
2026-09-09 18:52:50
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