@hydenoutloud: Women….. what’s wrong with you? #dating #datingadvice #single #oklahoma #genx

Amy DeCaires-Fasy :

After being married for over 20 years and taking some time to reflect and heal, I’ve been dating for about a year and a half. It is difficult to find somebody organically. Online dating is just so depersonalized. But I think people in general are just dissatisfied with their lives and it’s easier to blame the other sex then look in the mirror. I’ve met some nice men, and I’ve met some real strange men, but I’ve been doing my part. I don’t need a man to complete me, but I would like to find real love again. My advice for everyone, grow up, take responsibility for yourself and realize it takes time to really know someone. Have a few deal breakers but give people a chance.

Deb :

Mike you are just meeting up with the wrong woman. There are plenty of us genuine women out there.

JLE :

Women are complicated. 😂 I’m a middle aged woman, when that menopause hits, it changes our whole world. No offense to men I just don’t think they get the whole one day we look a certain way and can do anything we want and then we look and things aren’t where they used to be on our bodies, our skin isn’t the same and we have lost that smile and glowing skin. We dry up like a prune in places and have to use medicine to help that issue and sex that we once loved is a chore because we can’t feel certain areas like we used to and it is a big pain in the ass. Sometimes I think women are embarrassed to say anything so a partner thinks they aren’t attracted to them anymore when in reality it’s not that it’s us and our bodies. Speaking for myself sometimes I just want to get into my feels with some music and think back to my younger days. It’s almost like a mourning period when we get to this age and it sucks. So maybe hell idk but maybe the women you are talking to are dealing with that as well and don’t know how to say to you or any guy. Hey I want to date but I just don’t get those feelings like I once did. Again this is me speaking as a woman and what I have heard from others. Best wishes finding a non crazy woman at this age. 😆😆

kate :

😳 Someone’s having a bad day.

MCAMY :

I’m the happiest I’ve ever been!! Truly!!

JLMinor :

I’m perfectly happy. I’m planning my retirement and I’m buying land and I’m going to build a new house and a Homestead. I will have chickens, quail, maybe some goats or sheep and claim to be almost 80% off grid. May even buy tractor just because I think that’ll be cool when I could possibly use it.

B_tothe_C :

Maybe an unpopular opinion…but too many people think that they just need to find someone to be with in order to be happy. And if that is their mindset, they will never be happy. People need to build a life they are happy with and if someone comes along that can contribute to that, great! But no one should be responsible for someone else’s happiness.

miss d :

I don't feel like you're coming across in a good way here, we're all different. Ladies can be good or bad. And men can be good or bad. Don't blame it all onto the ladies. And we won't blame it all onto the men we're just different sexes and were obviously made differently, but I do the work with men, I don't expect them to do everything I will approach them.\n But yes how good that would be to be approached myself. Because there's so many windows of opportunities for that slight , five minutes , that you just don't know what to do

patriciamulbarger :

You are right but you are not dating the right woman. You need to find someone that wants to have fun and make each other happy

Beth Carlton :

Who said we’re unhappy??

Renae Williams :

unfortunately I feel the same way about men. I just want someone to have fun with do crazy things. Every guy I meet just wants to stay home and do nothing. I am not a do nothing gal.

Jillybean! :

❌❌Stormy❌❌ :

What do you mean by dating? Do you mean take me to dinner and then try and have sex with me when we get in a private setting. That’s the problem I’m having with dating. I’m sick of no one spending time getting to know me.

Molly Mollarina 🍃🌺🌿 :

thanks for tolerating us. lol personality over looks Mike. Personality is everything

kristy❌️ :

I dont think anyone dates anymore. im very happy. its a shame old school love doesn't exist anymore

🎵 stacy L :

I've tolerated enough for 19 years emotional verbal abuse

heather :

I’ve found that no one wants to put in the effort to date. Everyone seems to have a routine and you have to be willing to switch things up and make yourself available to someone outside your routine to date

🍪 CookieGirl 🍪 :

I’m happy that I am not a Karen 😂😂😂

Ginger :

everything you are saying goes the same way woman feel about the men. the check off list and all.

Linda Garcia :

picking a dandelion I have a neighbors lawn and giving it to me. I think it’s very romantic.

tralyn1982 :

I just stitched your video on the double edged sword 🗡️

Susan Wilson :

I’m a

user1306826161262 :

I’m just dating myself.

🏹🏆Angie🏆🏹 💨 :

Women are complicated men are complicated but me when I give my all to a person it’s not because of what is like in bed or it looks or anything like that it’s personality.

jenmc80 :

No. No guy has been willing to give me a chance. I would gladly go out with a guy if he asked, but I’m not being asked. When I try, I get shot down or ignored. What do I need to do? Buy a billboard and advertise?