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"social media standards" killed love
2026-08-30 14:44:59
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7Ryy :
A man's first flower is at his own funeral
2026-08-30 16:02:27
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jom_sxcz :
TINAWAG NA BARE MINIMUM LAHAT NG EFFORTS AT SACRIFICES KO, WITHOUT KNOWING NA ANDAMI KONG SINET ASIDE NA PROBLEM AT OPPORTUNITY PARA LANG MABIGAY LAHAT NG GUSTO NIYA.
2026-08-30 17:31:00
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ZEN :
Honestly, it’s hard being a man in this generation. Sometimes it feels like all the good things you do are considered the bare minimum, something that doesn’t deserve a simple thank you or appreciation because it’s seen as just something a man should do. But the moment you make one mistake, it’s immediately labeled as a red flag and becomes something that gets criticized.
2026-08-31 09:12:41
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Brantyy :
Just be grateful fr, that’s the most bare minimum for men. We love the feeling of being appreciated and that’s all we need. No need to reciprocate our gifts or efforts you don’t need to buy us gifts or what so ever, it is not a exchange gift. being grateful is already the reciprocation that we were looking for that’s all fr! 🫶🏻
2026-08-30 15:27:08
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panda :
I think everything we do isnt really considered as “BARE MINIMUM”. Y’all, please be aware that some people who r currently in rs do not really know how relationship works. Some of them are just trying, some are learning, and some are just unaware. But it doesn’t automatically remove their “ Efforts” just because it didnt achieve your expectations. To my girls out there, please be gentle, not all men are open to everything. Let them learn through your guidance and maturity. Some men do not really know how to express their feelings, but I know they are trying. To the men out there, please, learn what u must learn. U may not be able to give everything, but let them feel that u value them. Learn and observe how they feel. Because in the end, both of you will grow together— it might not be perfect, but at least both of you did try. Because a person who tried is better than a person who never tried.
2026-08-31 00:00:56
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baduke :
as a man, its a lot for us.. we wont ask too much, what our partner can give is enough
2026-08-30 14:35:35
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L. :
"Bare minimum until you stop providing anything for them". We men love unconditionally appreciation lang gusto namin girls and by that the condition has already fullfil. Just make a man feel everything is worth it and he will give you everything and anything. Note this is only applicable to good man/matured man out there.
2026-08-31 04:25:31
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jaina :
diba? the audacity of other woman to demand something expensive tapos pag partner na nila nag sabi o mag demand dami na sinasabi. stop demanding something you also can't give, appreciate nalang. lalo na't usually sa mag bf/gf now mag school pa, you really expect someone na nag-aaral pa na bilhan ka ng mga maraming expensive gifts?
2026-08-30 15:13:17
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swauze :
ohhh we men only want appreciation for the things that we did, I my self been doing all of that everyday with my girl and she doesn't failed me, she knows how to make me happy.
2026-08-30 22:36:25
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lauren :
all the things you've mentioned aren't bare minimum for me because i haven't experienced all of those things. if it happens for me to experience that, i would be so grateful for making me feel valued and taken care of in that way.
2026-08-31 03:48:29
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effort should go both ways. stop the "as he should" mindset, if we demand smth make sure that we can also provide for wtv they demand too. napapa-sobra sa princess treatment e tapos maghahangad pa yan ng equality haha. the audacity.
2026-08-30 15:25:40
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Haku🍒 :
It’s the effort that counts. All i ever needed was appreciation, which she always gives without complaining so it’s good
2026-08-31 02:11:09
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M. :
repost ko na para sa inyo
2026-08-30 14:38:54
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kapethantutan :
HAHAHAHAHA naghanap ng crochet flowers or paper flowers (allergic ako sa bulaklak) para may maibigay sa kan’ya. Hinahatid-sundo kahit na bumabagyo para panatag ako na safe s’ya. Sinasamahan mag-groceries kasi nag-aalangan s’ya mamili para sa stock n’ya sa dorm n’ya. Pinagluluto ko ng favorite foods n’ya or sinasadya ko bumili ng takeout kapag alam ko na masama pakiramdam n’ya at ‘di pa s’ya nag-ddinner. “As you should” or “dapat lang” natatanggap ko. Never ko in-open ‘to, wala naman na kami. Walang problema mag-effort, sa totoo lang. Pero sana naman makatanggap din ng appreciation paminsan-minsan. Hindi ko sinusumbat pag-ccompromise ko para sa kan’ya, ah? Pero hindi ko rin maitanggi na minsan, gusto ko rin makarinig ng “thank you” or “I appreciate you” sa mga ginagawa ko. Estudyante kami parehas, to be fair. Sorry kung hindi ko naibigay ‘yung mga gusto mo, bebu. I’m sorry at ayon pa lang kinaya ko that time. I’ll do better, bebu. Sad thing is it won’t be towards you anymore, as you’ve already found someone who can comfortably do all the things you want. I’m always rooting for you, bebu.
2026-08-30 16:29:16
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dither :
reading this made me realize na i actually had everything i was looking for dun sa 5 years ko. palagi kaming give and take, willing kami mag-share ng lahat, even sa dates namin kahit magkano pa ’yan, parehas kaming may ambag. ma-effort din kami sa isa’t isa when it came to gifts or simply posting each other. hindi man kami parehas, we just complemented each other. she always cared about my studies kasi hindi ako ganun kagaling academically, and she was already good on her own naman, but her main struggle was gaining confidence in herself, so i helped her build that in my own ways. we always knew how to be there for each other whenever we needed it, and malaking bagay ’yun sa amin back then. close din kami sa both sides ng family namin, and we’d spend time with each other’s families, from family gatherings to going to church together every friday. whenever we stayed out late, both sides of our families were always ready to hatid/sundo sa amin kahit gaano pa kalayo. halos lahat ng events and gatherings, magkasama kami, and we were basically a team non. hindi man naging perfect ang lahat, but looking back, i’m genuinely grateful for everything we had. she was my first love, and we never needed socmed standards to tell us how to love each other. we just had our own way of loving each other. thank you, kz, for showing me what real love felt like. i’ll never forget everything i learned from us.
2026-08-31 02:20:42
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Novelliño :
swerte siguro nang magiging bf/bf neto e matured mag isip🥹
2026-08-30 15:13:47
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Zxc :
I have this ex, 3 years already. Before student nurse siya ako naman working student. I used to provide for her kahit sa school siya, I make sure no empty stomach kumakain siya during lunch and break time. Pinapadalhan ko pagkain cause I want her full. She is spoiled talaga. Take note LDR kami. Full of love and trust. Time comes, Graduate na siya and nagka work so ako na lang natira nag aaral, we broke up. Ako nakipagbreak kasi di ko na siya kaya i sustain and I have so many problems, I want her pero I need to make sure din na kaya ko siya I-maintain. Pero yeah, until time comes na nakipaghiwalay ako Last January 2026 para pagpatuloy yung studies ko, last academic year na to and Ojt na lang sana. So we ended up talking last May 2026, pero wala na kami Jan 2026, she told me na kahit wala na mag usap pa rin kami. Nag iba ihip ng hangin last May 21, 2026 - 7:39 pm. Skip to July 3, nagparamdam ulit and nabulabog mundo ko haha. Then July 4 nag dm sa friend ko na kung pwede daw niya landiin hahaha wtf, then yung friend ko nagsabi sa akin, di niya alam na wala na pala kami, sooo yun kinausap niya and umamin na last 2024 pa pala niya napapansin friend ko and "trip" daw niya. So nagulat kami dalawa. So 2 years mo na pala trip kaibigan ko habang tayo pa 😌 wahaha. Dami nilang pinag usapan that time. So July 7, nagsorry si ex sa akin kasi daw nagka gusto daw siya sa guy friend ko pero ofc wala naman na sa akin yun. Ito lumabas sa bunganga niya, "Hindi, never naman ako nag cheat. Nito lang" . Isnt it microcheating or cheating na yung nagkagusto siya sa friend ko way back 2024???? Ps. just a rant here. Never naman kami nagkaroon cheating issue before. Nagstart lang din yan nung pumasok s sa "BPO" iykyk.....
2026-08-31 03:25:32
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jessiicaa :
I really cannot talaga sa mga other girls na tinatawag na "BARE MINIMUM" ’yung mga ginagawa ng mga bfs nila such as pagsundo, flowers etc while nag b-beg ako sa ex (js broke up 3 days ago) na sunduin ako sa school kahit ilang beses lang, gusto kolang maramdaman kasi naiinggit ako specially sa mga friends kong hatid sundo ng bfs nila:') he's not a busy person but he always address himself na he is. The fact na ilang beses niya lang ako sinundo sa school, minsan pilit pa ಥ ╭ ╮ ಥ
2026-08-31 02:23:48
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ligaya :
He's working as an electrical engineer sa isang site at araw araw sta ot and pagod. Last week while we were spending our sunday in his room, hinawakn nya yung kamay ko at napansin na parang nagbabalat. Naglaba kasi ako nung sat ng mga uniforms nya(first time ko ginawa yun kasi naawa ako sa kanya lagi sya pagod talaga dahil siguro may hinahabol sla na ddline of their proj.) Sabi ko, 'ang tamang nung sabon kaya ganyan yung kamay ko. Pinindot pindt nya yung palm ko and said "hindi ka na maglalaba ulit ng ganon. wag na." Napangiti talaga ako, sabi nya pa "hintayin mo nalang na tuwing linggo day off ko tapos ikaw nalang magsasampay" Lord pls let me love him the way he deserves to be loved. ♥️
2026-08-30 16:36:29
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cardio :
I'm in a happy relationship now. So it feels like I shouldn't say this. But to this day, I still cry whenever Im reminded how my past rs criticized my "lack of effort", when I was the only one who did... I was the one who was awake at night to stay with her through work, got her flowers, skip meals to pay for dates and dinner, stopped talking or going out with friends, I was the one who went out my way to communicate whenever we had a rough patch, always the one to reach out but never thr one being reached out to or even considered. And it pains me that I never got to express my wants, my needs, or even my dissatisfaction of her treatment. and that maybe even at the end of it, she still feels like her reason for leaving was justified or even mature, when she has been making much excuses to end the relationship whenever possible (cause apparently avoidant??) to the point of toxic. And naive as I was, I kept making reasons about it, that it was not her toxicity, but my immaturity and naivety. Cause at the end of it, why was I still the one saying sorry.
2026-08-30 16:00:05
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R U R' U' :
for me Sapat na sa Babae yung pala Smile lang, Hindi mainitin ang ulo, Kalmado mag salita, sweet and caring at masipag. then ako na bahala sa lahat. yun yung masarap uwian at kasama,
2026-08-31 03:35:21
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lucifer_dnd :
thank you! finally someone posted about this, i never ask for to much, sometimes i am asking myself, halos lahat binibigay ko, pero simpleng appreciation hindi manlang nya/nila magawa.
2026-08-31 02:32:01
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