Insecure people are inherently selfish because all they think about is themselves.
2026-08-31 19:39:28
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Mnarzzz :
they will punish you for loving them i swearrrrr
2026-09-18 19:18:38
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🥀 Kitty ✨ :
Yes. BIG difference between having insecurities and being an insecure person. The latter will hate you for not being as insecure as they are.
2026-08-30 23:27:21
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Patience :
A lot of insecure people feel they deserve what you have more than you. There is hidden anger within it and they’d take it from you for themselves if they magically could do so.
2026-08-30 17:26:06
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Nicodemus :
A lot of ppl hate themselves so much they’ll never truly believe you don’t
2026-08-30 21:43:39
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Fluff_off_1234 :
An insecure man is a dangerous man, REMEMBER THIS!
2026-08-31 14:13:45
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K @ $ # L £ ¥ :
yep yep yep yep
2026-09-20 01:53:12
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Kittynat_ :
your eyebrows are the bombbbb
2026-09-18 21:56:59
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GoldentalkswithClo :
In quite literally insufferable. They make it your problem, your responsibility and your reality. I don’t want another one. I had one that was insecure about her body and because I wasn’t insecure about mine she made it her duty to bring up my body.
2026-08-30 23:29:21
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hbizzles :
Yep there is no way to pull them up theyll drag you to hell and resent you the whole time. It’s an impossible situation.
2026-08-30 16:30:16
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EldritchWetwareSlut :
I have been a hardcore humanist for years and I'm still a deeply empathetic and compassionate person, but I had to learn the hard way you can't love somebody into giving a shit about themselves and people who are unhappy with themselves really will take it out on you just like you said. it's so frustrating
2026-08-31 01:51:17
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Iazveen Abaddie :
Exactly this! And don’t let you be “prettier” than them too. Now all of a sudden, it’s your job to make sure they feel secure about themselves. As if it’s not called SELF-esteem 😂
2026-08-30 19:11:25
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✰keilani1rl✰ :
Insecure people will ruin your life because they hate their own 😭😭😭 you cannot save them!!!!
2026-09-19 05:23:44
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Jules :
Never get in the water with a drowning man
2026-09-18 03:58:14
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lmfaomal🫦 :
You cannot love some out of insecurity. It is a VERYYY painful lesson.
2026-09-19 09:25:48
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0648195 :
yes. insecure people always start unnecessary fights because they feel the need to defend themselves because they see EVERYTHING as an attack on them
2026-08-31 13:45:30
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ren✩✮✭ :
It's the self loathing. A lot of insecure people tend to also be entitled to validation while also self loathing you could complement them hold them up give them positive affirmations and they will come back with 10 more issues
2026-08-31 20:00:10
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Sadie Zombie :
Insecure people are the strangest, most messed up bullies
2026-08-31 14:05:21
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Anaja's✧Talkshow☆• ♑︎ 𓃵🇭🇹 :
They will absolutely make it your problem. You have to dim your light for them while they constantly compare themselves to you or neg you. The second I see it I'm gone
2026-08-30 23:15:10
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Warwick Hunt :
Sometimes distance is needed to be able to give compassion.
2026-08-31 00:07:53
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solara :
They will quite literally kill u to take what u have. Good luck 🙂
2026-08-30 21:20:52
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sad fish :
🤚 ex-deeply insecure person here. I was mostly an avoidant insecure and it was mostly about my personality/identity and not so much appearance. It took me the longest while to realise that I was centering my discomfort in every interaction. It made me a crapy friend and made me feel completely disconnected from people bc I refused to share anything vulnerable or that could paint me in a bad light
2026-08-31 16:11:47
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CoCo :
This is something i understood immediately and ive learned to withhold empathy and community from the right people. Some people dont deserve to be cared for because they only know how to hurt and inconvenience the ones who care for them.
2026-08-30 15:41:31
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em :3 :
i agree! I think they don't distinguish insecurities like appearance, or maybe something small that everyone relates to and insecurities about their personality, their life, or whatever it may be and they push it onto you! its so draining to deal with
2026-08-30 16:02:55
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Annie K :
Every woman has moments of insecurity jealousy and all emotions, what’s scary is someone who emits the insecure energy everywhere they go
2026-08-30 22:32:01
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