My daughter just said that she feels no empathy for a certain person and she distanced herself because she felt she was gonna be mean if she stayed. And she told me she understood that person and their behaviour but she is not responsible for that person’s validation and stability
2026-08-30 16:55:00
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RayGrows :
Chileeeee ppl pushing 40 and still acting like this
2026-08-30 18:30:06
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Risto :
Relationships always do something you can’t do yourself. That’s the whole point of attachment.
2026-08-30 15:40:20
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PrinceTravis :
Virgo men all day and I’m a Virgo 😂😂
2026-08-31 19:36:58
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mommy :
girl have you been studying my ex’s brain??
2026-08-30 15:59:09
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kimmerp8703 :
This is how my ex husband acts. The relationship was abusive and so toxic, yet when I chose to walk away he completely spiraled. He would rather have the relationship than be alone.
2026-09-04 21:11:27
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mkn :
i’m curious, is there a name for this? or is it just emotional immaturity generally?
2026-08-30 18:38:26
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Laura | Healing FA :
Now what you mean by toxic freak off???
2026-08-30 19:16:14
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Queenofpop :
"I’m going to tell you your too much even tho i’m doing the most" 🤣🤣 that part
2026-08-30 15:53:53
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jaymeltsheartss :
Only so few understand this. They’re always never alone so they constantly have someone to keep mirroring back their manufactured selves.
2026-08-31 10:19:30
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prettykittiekonjure :
Yes!!! They wanna believe that because THEY need YOU, its mutual but deep down they know that's not true & it makes them resent you more.
2026-08-30 22:51:01
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Hey, I’m Laura💗💫 :
“Dependency disguised as mutuality.” Chef’s kiss. 😘🤌🏽
2026-08-30 22:53:31
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x :
It is an exhausting way to live, both for the person constantly running from their own emptiness and the other trapped holding up a reflection.
2026-08-31 14:24:47
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AMX :
My mother is like this. I can no longer be in the same room with her.
2026-08-31 15:28:31
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TheAttachmentAdvocate :
How does arrested development impact those with a DA attachment style in your opinion?
2026-09-03 04:47:55
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D :
Very true. Been there and I do not recommend
2026-08-31 01:42:47
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K. C. :
This explains so much about my relationship with my toxic ex that I didn’t understand. I have never heard it described like this, thanks for the information!
2026-08-30 19:25:43
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Raziak831 :
but the irony is they resent you for staying and putting up their BS.
2026-08-31 06:24:46
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Pr@jna :
this sooo validating.
2026-08-30 18:49:39
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Froggers :
make a book bro💔
2026-08-31 20:50:27
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Celene7 :
Excellent summation of utter dysfunction. How can one discern upon meeting someone that they act as you described? In all honesty this is one of the worst interpersonal relationships that I’ve experienced. How do you recognize these type of individuals from the start? Or is it impossible to do so?
2026-08-31 11:31:00
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es5o4 :
yep i got rid of someone like this
2026-08-31 01:55:05
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ediththeearthangel :
Damnnnn this man spittinggg is talk hearing him
2026-08-31 02:20:20
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YOJSAI :
That’s me. but I make that VERY clear in the beginning. there is no me without us. and said person agrees then gets overwhelmed. I deal with autism bpd etc. No it’s not an excuse but I have issues it’s why I try to stay away from relationships but I am also addicted to them.
2026-08-31 06:14:14
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