@18hens: There’s always a bit of a learning curve when you first move in with somebody… but I truly believe that learning about our neurodivergent brains has helped us a lot to make the changes/accommodations necessary for peace 😮💨 it’s always more effective to work with what you have, not against it!! One day we’ll make enough disposable income to hire a housekeeper though. I’m manifesting it ✨ Pls comment below any other accommodations that work well with ADHD brains!! ❤️ #adhd #autism #couple #couplecontent
I pretty much always use my bicycle. So I lock it when I am inside, and when it's unlocked to ride it the keys are on the bicycle. I attached my house keys to that. I can't ride my bicycle when I forget my house keys.
2026-08-30 20:56:48
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k3rrots :
It's like my goodbye to my partner... every time he leaves I said "wallet, phone, keys?" and now he says that to himself when he leaves too. 🥰
2026-08-30 15:49:22
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Henna :
I almost exclusively get along with people with ADHD tho 😭
2026-08-30 15:37:01
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servireestvivere :
Oh gosh, I wish I had someone to do the organization and I’d do the “wet chores” 😭
2026-08-30 20:18:25
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Nessie :
I have a "leaving the house" station, if you will, near the door. I don't always actually use it but it does help a bit.
2026-08-30 20:45:14
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Saphira✨nana's_cozycorner :
Do you have ideas about organising? My husband struggle with putting stuff awa too, but if I do it, I feel like I am constently picking up after him. And I ear if I clean his office He doesn't know where anything is anymore (I am not sure if He knows where anything is riht now tough)
2026-08-30 20:52:41
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Stephanie :
idk how to fix forgetting things but if he loses things often then I'd put a tracker in them. have a tracker on my guys wallet and it's used daily. has to be the ones that can play a noise though.
2026-08-30 21:20:17
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sindy :
put this near door or something similar on the door
2026-08-30 16:38:56
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ִֶָ𝑎𝔂𝑛𝓾𝑟ִֶָ.𓂃 ࣪ ִֶָ🪽་༘࿐ :
What are you eating?? i need the recipe
2026-08-30 16:02:53
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audrey 🌱 :
A place right next to the door for wallet and keys - put them there as you come in
2026-08-30 18:30:10
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Miwito :
Thanks for sharing! Touchy subject around finances… yall gotta system?
2026-08-30 19:39:53
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Mikasa :
try a "checkout list" in a small picture frame by the door. This is one version.
2026-08-30 17:10:53
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𓆩𝓢𝓪𝔂𝓪𓆪 😈 :
Real af I HATE and suck at organizing and putting things away I rather wash, clothes dishes etc
2026-08-30 17:20:51
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Juju :
I leave my key in the door ALWAYYYYS
2026-08-30 19:26:21
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Kristen White :
I like to call myself the navigator, lol
2026-08-30 18:17:43
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Beth ✨ :
we say wallet, keys phone in a silly fun way to each other before leaving the house. And sometimes if we're leaving together I just gather his stuff up as well
2026-08-30 17:44:22
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wine cheese carbs :
I fear the answer for us was a fanny pack so it's all strapped to his body. I finally had to accept that his best way of working with his ADHD was to embrace the habits and style of an 80 year old man. Though the socks and sandals are still highly questionable.
2026-08-30 18:02:54
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juuso🍊 :
for me what helped with not forgetting wallet keys etc, was häving little bowl or something near door that is only ment for stuff you need when you leave. you come home, put thing in there, when you leave yiu just empty the bowl into pockets! 🩷
2026-08-30 16:01:00
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LucySilver57 :
I'm both 😅. Learning the whole, 'hey in 10mins we're leaving' and the being ready with everything to leave the house etc..... Will have you so ready for kids, if you chose to have them 😁
2026-08-30 17:11:57
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Jess22bless :
Keep a bowl/basket by the door and get in the habit of putting wallet and keys in that bowl when you walk in. You have to train yourself or him lol but after a bit it becomes a habit you drop loot on the way into the house and will grab it on the way out. Has to be right by the door tho
2026-08-30 19:04:41
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Jorge Mario 🇬🇹 :
AuDHD here, a coat hanger by the door with the things I usually remember last minute or forget altogether has gone a long way to help me leave the house with everything I need. Unfortunately I just moved and there's no practical space for the coat hanger now and I left my baseball cap yesterday (which is important to me even at night because of light sensitivity). I also put the wallet and keys in my pockets right when I put on pants, so I either don't wear pants in the house or I'll have those things in my pockets even if I don't go out.
2026-08-30 16:17:31
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jellyroll :
okay
yo
I like your eggs
looks delicious
2026-08-30 18:53:32
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Jess :
my ADHD functions similarly.. I don't realize things are getting cluttered until it looks like a tornado hit.. 😅 love that you guys get eachother and are able to support each other ❤️
2026-08-30 15:48:20
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usensne4111399 :
Stay alert though, sounds like you are doing way more accommodating. Your own internal shame thinking no one will love you can make women overwork in relationships. (Not that you feel that, just me haha??)
2026-08-30 19:22:39
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