The last time I had a one-night stand at a bar was after I talked with a stranger about their research in carbon retention in the roots of plants in collaboration with the local agricultural school. I forgot flirting was even a possibility in the interaction until they called me cute. I was invested in the plants first and foremost.
2026-08-30 21:36:57
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Elle🌙🦋 :
Yes and it’s a non negotiable in an intimate relationship
2026-08-30 18:17:09
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Ladybug Frequency :
I’ve always defined this as sapiosexual. I need that before anything else!
2026-08-30 20:24:30
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Bouldernubianbabe :
Oh this is why I had to drink every time I engaged in intimacy?
2026-08-31 00:56:35
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omniessence :
I have ADHD and feel the same way but I have to say: my experience with autistic partners is that the curiosity is rarely returned. It’s typically a one-way street, with me seeing them but not being seen myself.
When my husband and I started dating he would take me to breakfast at the cafe by his house every single day and we would have a check in and info dump. I didn’t even know what to do with how safe I felt, I guess marry him.
2026-08-30 22:02:45
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Jordan Buell :
I've said before that if someone wanted to get to know me they should watch the videos I share to them, because of the intimacy involved. I want someone to love my autistic hyperfocuses, even if they don't share them. That's intimacy fs.
2026-08-30 20:38:36
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Lil Miss Curious :
So brilliantly verbalised🦾👏❤️
2026-08-30 17:46:47
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SimSima09 :
oh bless you, just regular good conversation 🫠
2026-08-30 18:08:55
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アーカードの姫🪬 :
This is part of why I prefer relationships that involve some BDSM, usually people into kink are extra extra communicative. Vanilla allistics will be like “oh you’re not vanilla? How hard do you want me to hit you 🤪” and I’m like nooooooooo that’s like .0000000001% of the equation here😭
2026-08-30 20:38:20
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just_being_me_trace :
This is so true ❤️💫⭐️Me info dumping and them info dumping, is intimacy, cos I see them and they see me ❤️⭐️💫 Plus when they do that too, I know I’ve found my people x
2026-09-07 22:59:01
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cait :
Damn am I autistic
2026-08-30 21:36:39
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🍒 goddess saige 🍒 :
I love intimacy, yet can’t find anyone safe to share it with 😭
2026-08-31 00:00:08
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Adrienne28 :
Spot on!
2026-08-30 19:05:13
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Laura :
Absolutely. Being genuinely seen and accepted for who we actually are without needing to hold any part of ourselves back, and having them be vulnerable enough to do the same... that trust is a beautiful thing.
2026-08-31 01:51:58
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𝔹𝕒𝕪𝕝𝕖𝕚𝕘𝕙 :
Being able to info-dump and mutually share curiosity about the mechanisms of each others minds and experiences is THE most intimate form of soul immersion in my experience.
2026-09-05 16:14:05
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Caden Storm beyond the scream :
I seem to piss people off when I look for emotional connection..
2026-08-31 09:06:04
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✨Hope✨ :
Realllllll
2026-08-30 19:27:11
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Solara Aurelia🪭 :
ADHD here and I love this! I believe there is a place for this type of dynamic in society.
2026-09-01 20:46:11
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Arie Gabriel :
Have you found ppl to do this with you long term? I can’t
2026-08-31 19:18:17
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Harmony 🪷⏳ :
Am I Autistic?
2026-08-30 21:45:21
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Danielle Louise ❌️ :
that part
2026-08-30 19:12:14
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L.H :
Yes yes yes. This is so real
2026-09-02 17:05:46
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