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𝙢𝙖𝙙𝙙𝙞 :
people only portraying women’s sexuality as positive when they’re in a dominant role is sooooo backwards to anyone actually in the kink community
2026-08-30 21:52:51
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Jarl Lia :
They see sex as something that happens to women
2026-08-30 23:55:11
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s꩜phie :
I am super kinky myself but we have to be honest about the fact that most bdsm practices are rooted in the subjugation of women like let’s just confront it at least rather than hide behind choice feminism😭😭😭
2026-08-31 07:49:36
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D :
You're so right, Scottish Jesus
2026-08-31 06:06:57
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✨Arsyn Cryptic✨ :
Let women be lil freaks! All I want is for everyone to be careful and to be knowledgeable of red flags so that they’re safe.
2026-08-30 23:02:35
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Adonis :
the amount of times I've seen people refer to kinks that lesbian women (no men involved btw) engage in as being male centered is absolutely absurd
2026-08-31 01:19:48
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Runa :
and don't get me started on how me being a submissive poc woman with a white male dom is basically looked at like a mortal sin.
2026-08-30 22:40:07
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cowboyskelet0n :
it’s bc they view heterosexual sex as something that happens to women and not something women actively engage and partake in
2026-08-31 00:05:21
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K Alarcon322 :
back when people were claiming that Sabrina Carpenter was promoting domestic abuse when her new album "Man's Best friend" came out.
2026-08-31 20:40:46
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xo.hannah.xo0 :
I hatee this “male centered” “youre doing it for men” bullshit. YES there are SOME things influenced by patriarchy and men, but also A. Most women do it for themselves and B. Who caresss? God forbid i want to look hot and get some postive attention from the gender im attracted to from time to time. People act like youre not allowed to want to look good
2026-08-31 13:57:07
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Moon :
I had someone tell me to report my bf to the police for dv because “any man that’s willing to participate in that is a horrible person” so actually we just like the same things and were incredibly safe when doing so.
2026-08-31 14:36:23
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Phoenix :
and gods forbid any kink/fetish possibly stem from or result as a way to heal through trauma cause then we're back to that whole "daddy issues = slut" shit again
2026-08-30 21:19:00
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lizzie:) (aizawa’s version) :
“hook up culture is disgusting!!” sometimes people just want to have sex with no strings attached. if both parties are cool with it there’s literally no issue😭
2026-08-31 13:36:39
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sleepysiren00 :
This is a very VERY multifaceted discussion
2026-08-31 05:40:26
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bia🕷️ :
if you go too far left, you will always end up on the right
2026-09-01 06:38:31
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waylon !! :
I only criticize BDSM because I get usually why the women like it right? Like ik some like to have a say and control in being hurt. What are the men getting out of it tho? Hitting ur gf?? and if its “pleasing my partner” thats also still odd imo ur just ok hitting her cuz she wants it.. I just never got it from the men’s perspective that isn’t questionable
2026-08-31 08:17:40
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ִֶָ🪽་༘ :
THIS!!! this! I strongly, strongly agree with this and we should let women have kinks in peace without telling them that they’re setting women back to 500 years, but I also think the problem appears when you’re practicing those kinks and your partner gets a bit TOO aggressive with you to the point it makes the whole situation uncomfortable, painful and dangerous in the disguise of kink play and stuff like that. THATS when your partner has crossed the line and you should consider setting some boundaries, because as much as you say you like it, if it gets too dangerous and harmful, that’s not having ‘the best time’ of ur life. Stay safe out there and don’t be afraid to call them out on their @busive behavior! 🫂
2026-09-03 23:24:30
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Ash ४°⛧ :
Its because they really cant see women being in control of their own thoughts and feelings, and feel they have to go against "social norms" in order for them to be taken seriously.
2026-09-04 17:25:38
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fififierce1013 :
Sometimes we don’t always need to like push kink into mainstream tho like I grew up thinking the way women have sex is being like choked and submitting I never knew there was any other way it was all I heard women talk about and sometimes when young women are coming into their own they learn that the popular thing to do is fall into this like toy role.
2026-08-31 07:36:50
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Crafts_with_Squish :
I miss when it was “the female body isn’t just a sexual object, but she can present however she wants with HER body, and we support her for her choices in herself”.
2026-08-30 22:37:29
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shanna :
i don’t think a male has the right to determine what’s male-centered tbh 😭 this take requires much more nuance than what you just said
2026-08-31 12:12:55
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belllalllyn :
its like people see sex as something happening to one person or another, whoever is the dominant one is "doing" the sex while the submissive one is "recieving" the sex. this isn't really how it is though because in those dynamics there is (or should be) a mutual respect and connection, a foundation of consent as well. it may seem like one person is fully in control but at the end of the day, both have almost an equal amount of control. sometimes i would argue that the submissive one has more control.
2026-08-31 03:58:05
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Kar'niss wife 🕷️ :
they bring up porn as if kinks and even BDSM didn’t exist for centuries before it
2026-08-31 11:15:09
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݁ ˖Ი𐑼⋆ :
purity culture is getting so bad it's now considered "feminism":(
2026-09-02 15:48:15
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sphere :
Nope they don’t. It’s important to look at where certain desires come from tho. There is a balance between choice feminism (everything a woman decides is good, because it’s her choice) and questioning where the choices are coming from. Women are ALLOWED to do and like anything, being into something, even it it is for example male centered is still allowed and doesn’t make you a bad feminist (plus we don’t care about purity WTF?), BUT you still need to be critical of your choices and ask yourself where they are coming from. A lot of our desires are harmful to us, and do come from the patriarchy. And spoiler, you can also know that and still enjoy those things. Things like this just require nuance, and forcing yourself to stop certain things doesn’t even touch the root of the problem.
2026-09-01 17:45:00
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