@mackenzieherman: Replying to @Lei K the best time to address avoidant withdrawal is when you first notice the distance. Don’t chase harder. Don’t abandon your needs. Don’t pretend nothing happened, because they know something is going on inside them as well. #dismissiveavoidant #anxiousattachment #fearfulavoidantattachment #avoidantcycle #attachmentstyle
I think from what I've experienced my girlfriend has avoidant attachment. We were going great, then she asked for space to think if she wants to continue the relationship. we text occasionally but not like it was before. tips on navigating this 'space?'
2026-09-06 05:42:40
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FruitFliesLikeAnAirplane :
After 20+ years of being with an avoidant, I have given up on any need or want I ever had. I lost myself to try to be lovable. I'm grieving what I could have been from losing myself.
2026-08-30 21:37:23
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haroldmcfarland3 :
I packed up and left while she was out,and i haven't talked to her since
2026-08-30 21:14:05
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tokler45 :
I kicked mine out with no warning and she melted down
2026-09-02 13:55:59
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user6317221743819 :
every time I asked to resolve things directly, it caused problems. when I stopped initiating interactions but still replied cordially, it was the most effective to get him to come to me within a week or two. problem is, it left me feeling like it was a part time relationship.
2026-08-30 21:54:10
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Lei K :
So helpful!!!🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏. Thank you!!!
2026-08-30 23:28:36
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