@mackenzieherman: Replying to @Lei K the best time to address avoidant withdrawal is when you first notice the distance. Don’t chase harder. Don’t abandon your needs. Don’t pretend nothing happened, because they know something is going on inside them as well. #dismissiveavoidant #anxiousattachment #fearfulavoidantattachment #avoidantcycle #attachmentstyle
After 20+ years of being with an avoidant, I have given up on any need or want I ever had. I lost myself to try to be lovable. I'm grieving what I could have been from losing myself.
2026-08-30 21:37:23
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haroldmcfarland3 :
I packed up and left while she was out,and i haven't talked to her since
2026-08-30 21:14:05
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user6317221743819 :
every time I asked to resolve things directly, it caused problems. when I stopped initiating interactions but still replied cordially, it was the most effective to get him to come to me within a week or two. problem is, it left me feeling like it was a part time relationship.
2026-08-30 21:54:10
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tokler45 :
I kicked mine out with no warning and she melted down
2026-09-02 13:55:59
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Lei K :
So helpful!!!🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏. Thank you!!!
2026-08-30 23:28:36
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