@korraobidi: 10 things my marriage taught me: 1. Watch how they treat you when you’re vulnerable or incapable. 2. Pay attention to who they become when they’re frustrated. 3. Notice whether their love brings you peace or anxiety. 4. Watch how they handle conflict and accountability. 5. Never lose yourself trying to keep someone. 6. Pay attention to how they react to your success. 7. Believe patterns, not potential. 8. Understand how power is used in the relationship. 9. Never ignore what they do with your vulnerabilities. 10. Love alone is never enough. #wass #korraobidi