Adele Marchant
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Erica Duignan :
Also, a man KNOWS when he’s not good enough for you, and he will disappoint
2026-09-30 19:11:47
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shifra 🍓🏙️ :
No clear signs = a clear sign
2026-09-28 18:20:06
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GKT :
If you go to a coffee shop and it’s trash, are we gonna ask the barista to try harder when we could just go try the other coffee shops or just take a break from coffee for a while🤔
2026-09-28 00:34:00
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mary kate <3 :
“And then she twisted the knife further…”
2026-09-20 18:01:12
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zowiththefIow :
Hate to say this, but don’t sleep with them until you get commitment. It makes it so much easier to see these things clearly and cut them off
2026-09-03 11:31:59
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bddjhcwey :
This was the reality check I so badly needed
2026-09-22 03:09:37
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Watch Tik Tok :
the guy i’m seeing never leaves the date without making a plan for the next time we see each other
2026-09-28 17:31:07
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Emilee :
Ok but … at what point do we hold them accountable for saying one thing and doing another?? If you don’t like me then say it - not the complete opposite ? We’re way too conditioned to accept shit communication
2026-09-02 12:04:04
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nellifresh :
Finally, someone said it. The over communication is not needed
2026-09-03 17:48:05
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Rebekkawith2ks :
Don’t sleep with them without a commitment. Keep your roster full until you’re committed. None of this stuff will you care about or sit around freaking out over.
2026-09-02 20:48:16
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Olivia and Rosie🐕🦺 :
Needed to hear this
2026-09-02 00:47:51
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Rebecca Rebe :
Should I be talking to other people during this stage? 🤔
2026-10-05 05:18:45
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María Fernanda :
Three weeks? I’ll remove him if he doesn’t talk to me in three days (when we start dating).
2026-09-28 17:07:39
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jasminescarletq :
3 weeks without texting is not acceptable
2026-09-23 21:03:30
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Taly.glam💕 & my furryfrenchie :
A partner is about the most important decision you will be doing. 😳 How in the world do people expect someone to just know right away.
2026-09-02 11:49:07
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chambra :
Sisters, delete that text thread and go on about your week! regardless of his feelings, that is the best use of time.
2026-09-02 18:58:10
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AshWihongi :
Harsh to hear. But honestly I needed it. Thank you
2026-09-02 20:20:06
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Cya Have It All |Monica♡softly :
I agree BUT women normally tell me im too cut throat for moving on so fast... I agree it be too soon and if you make me question the connection I will end it. I am not a researching scientist...
2026-09-23 10:06:30
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Erika :
Thanks, friend. I’ve gone on 4 dates and am absolutely looking forward to certainly. Okay, I need to calm down.. I’ve knows the guy for two weeks. 🤡
2026-09-03 19:03:52
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Adele Marchant :
And people are so intolerant with “inconsistency” because they don’t want to sit with the uncertainty of the early stages of dating OR they are so tolerant with inconsistency because they don’t want to be honest that this guy problem isn’t that into them
2026-09-02 00:31:07
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Tess🦝 :
Deleted the thread and moving along with my time!
2026-09-02 19:45:55
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Adele Marchant :
What I’m saying here is that often times what someone calls “inconsistent” in my DMs is a guy either (a) making it pretty clear he’s just not that into it or (b) someone expecting way too much consistency and certainty from someone in the very early stages of dating where it’s NORMAL to have a slow and healthy burn (including some days off communicating at first)
2026-09-02 00:29:59
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💖 ⋆ℒ :
the problem is the deception & the hooking up in between the switched off behavior 😳 the "inconsistency" is when THEY pursue you, then act hot & cold when you finally show interest. the "inconsistency" is when they act one way to your face, then another way when you are apart. and let's be real - when it gets to a point of "should i text him," it's become.. they fk, ghost, come back, lie, fk, ghost.. the PARAGRAPHS are a feeble attempt to hold them accountable or at least hold up a mirror to their cruelty. it gets "taken personally" because we've given them deep parts of us when it is "on" and when it's "off" it is triggering & traumatizing. 💯
2026-09-26 12:45:46
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Nisreen Ameen :
How can we truly know each other without consistent communication during the early stages or later? if we text once a week and meet in person every month or so how can I truly understand that person?
2026-09-02 04:42:46
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595shaishui :
you've been showing up in my fyp when I need it. 😌
2026-09-21 06:03:44
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