@kiore.speaks: Being old enough to know better doesn’t always mean someone was ever taught better. Accountability can include learning now. #kiorespeaks #differentlenses #unlearning #accountability #emotionalintelligence
I had this theory some people are mentally stuck at a young age if they were traumatized to some degree; turns out its called arrested development i believe
2026-08-31 04:22:44
2437
Alucard 🦇🧛🏻 :
Intent doesn’t change the outcome.
2026-08-31 14:31:01
997
Denise :
age gives you more opportunities to become mature, it doesn’t automatically make you mature. And “common sense” isn’t always as common as people think.😅
2026-08-31 06:25:43
6063
Lolabee The OG :
People definitely suffer from Arrested Development.
2026-08-31 14:15:31
40
tori :
I mean grown adults should understand they choose not to. They choose not to educate themselves, or strive for a better understanding
2026-08-31 03:13:41
1367
TheEerieAngel :
If you say “it’s not that deep” or “I’m not reading all of that” you’re the people this post is about
2026-08-31 14:09:40
77
goofy ahh :
some adults lack basic sense
2026-08-31 10:01:18
411
Vitamin Kay :
I have family members who are so shocked that I cut them off, like they don't see their own behaviour, like they're GENUINELY confused that their actions caused me to leave. People like that confuse me because how tf are you still alive? going around pissing everyone off with no repercussions
2026-08-31 20:34:11
31
Grass :
Is the world realizing child development is super super important? Maybe we are healing. Just slowly.
2026-08-31 10:43:18
251
🦋Jey🦋 :
Being stuck in a trauma cycle is like living in a vacuum fr
2026-08-31 02:45:50
311
CastorTroy :
nah, in this day and age where information is limitless and at your fingertips but people would rather bullshit on social media, ignorance become a choice. There's come a point in adulthood where you choose to be you instead of taking social cues and bettering yourself/seeking knowledge
2026-08-31 11:00:03
92
__a.s.y.a__ :
No deadass !!! Like some people genuinely deadass don’t understand and it’s scary because they can hurt everyone around them and they think that they’re the victim.
2026-09-02 01:37:11
0
Lino :
My mom is 62 and still doesn't understand cause and effect nor does she care 😭 which is odd because her mother, WHO RAISED HER, taught me and my siblings. In addition to some school teachers
2026-08-31 04:01:30
108
🗽Mí🇩🇴Aɱσɾ🌴 :
People lack situational awareness. It’s a scary thing, always be on your P’s & Q’s
2026-09-01 00:13:22
7
C.Boiss :
They understand, they don’t care. Not caring doesn’t equal not understanding and that’s the hard pill to swallow.
2026-08-31 14:04:10
19
⚖️𝕯𝖚𝖆𝖑⚖️ :
People know they just don’t care.
2026-08-31 06:54:46
63
Arabella🌀🦋 :
Literally how it feels everytime I mention climate change and people are like "That's not a real thing"
2026-08-31 08:56:20
11
@Simplysilvv :
💯💯💯Thank youuuu
2026-09-01 17:24:19
0
Traí :
Because their whole life they were able to be a creature of chaos without no repercussions. Thats why when it finally catches up with them they look crazy and don’t understand.
2026-08-31 06:21:49
29
justme. :
Every action has a reaction
2026-08-31 13:21:08
10
JANNY ET AL 🌈🧩 :
DBT teaches you the emotional regulation + communication skills many of us missed out on during childhood! i love DBT.
2026-08-31 02:40:35
33
bbylaneybear :
a lot of times it’s not only the way they grew up, it’s what they actively choose to consume on a daily basis. that victim mindset shit is a trap, however it takes one person to give u that new perspective that u actually respect and love, that makes it easier to stop fr. until they want peace they’ll just live in whatever wrong they think has been done to them and it’s very unhelpful tbh
2026-08-31 03:57:52
28
eggwhites2000 :
getting older and experiencing different things have definitely improved all those things for me. some people just choose to be assholes and the rest of us have to live with it (preferably by cutting contact to the bare minimum if possible).
2026-08-31 08:21:53
6
PinkStars :
guess what?In my country, Muslim women are taught that to collect good deeds✨ they must be obedient....constantly serving the men of the house. But they forget that every action has a cause and effect....especially blind servitude! Give me a break 😩 this is just a lazy excuse for control, disguised as piety. The effect? Women stay trapped, their power ignored, all while chasing a reward that never comes....
2026-08-31 11:56:17
12
anep Yenttihw :
Every action has a equal and opposite reaction....
2026-09-01 14:42:23
4
To see more videos from user @kiore.speaks, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.