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Every time I tell you to withdraw your energy, someone asks, isn't that just the silent treatment, isn't that manipulative? So let me settle it. The silent treatment is a punishment. It's when you go quiet because you want him to feel it, to panic, to chase, to finally get it, and you're refreshing your phone to see if he noticed. And that is exactly why it doesn't work, because it centers him. You are not free of him at all, you are still trying to control him, you just changed the method. Withdrawing your energy without warning is a completely different thing. That is a consequence, the natural outcome of a person's actions. Issuing warnings first is actually an act of people-pleasing, because you are trying to manage how he perceives you so you still come across as reasonable. But when you withdraw, you are not waiting for him to get it, and it is liberating, because you are no longer trying to control this person or parent them. Withdrawing your energy is about redirecting it, returning to yourself, and deciding this situation no longer deserves the energy you have been pouring into it. So ask yourself one honest question. Am I doing this so he feels it and learns his lesson, or because I have finally learned mine? Because those are two very different energies. Keywords: silence vs silent treatment, is going silent manipulative, punishment vs consequence, withdrawing your energy, warnings are people pleasing, boundaries not punishment, self respect, stop parenting him, dating advice for women, relationship psychology #womensdatingadvice #datingforwomen #relationships #datingadvice #feminineenergy
Every time I tell you to withdraw your energy, someone asks, isn't that just the silent treatment, isn't that manipulative? So let me settle it. The silent treatment is a punishment. It's when you go quiet because you want him to feel it, to panic, to chase, to finally get it, and you're refreshing your phone to see if he noticed. And that is exactly why it doesn't work, because it centers him. You are not free of him at all, you are still trying to control him, you just changed the method. Withdrawing your energy without warning is a completely different thing. That is a consequence, the natural outcome of a person's actions. Issuing warnings first is actually an act of people-pleasing, because you are trying to manage how he perceives you so you still come across as reasonable. But when you withdraw, you are not waiting for him to get it, and it is liberating, because you are no longer trying to control this person or parent them. Withdrawing your energy is about redirecting it, returning to yourself, and deciding this situation no longer deserves the energy you have been pouring into it. So ask yourself one honest question. Am I doing this so he feels it and learns his lesson, or because I have finally learned mine? Because those are two very different energies. Keywords: silence vs silent treatment, is going silent manipulative, punishment vs consequence, withdrawing your energy, warnings are people pleasing, boundaries not punishment, self respect, stop parenting him, dating advice for women, relationship psychology #womensdatingadvice #datingforwomen #relationships #datingadvice #feminineenergy

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