Samu🦇 :
People don’t try to understand others situation or even give a chance to understand or get to know them. I used to think the same, “why is he like that?”, “don’t be with him, he’s weird”. But never actually tried to think what was behind that person’s context or thoughts, I was guided but the society perspectives about that person. However, there was a moment when I met a girl who had a terrible past and in that moment, was only perceived as how she was in that past and not she actually was, an incredible person, full of joy and kindness and love to give, I didn’t know this girl past when we were talking and after 1 month, when she told me I was shock, this that Clark is saying is so real and even we don’t realize it in our daily lives, I’m not judging anyone anymore, now I only try to understand what’s behind all that, and be compassionate, if we don’t know that person we don’t have to judge or bullying them for being different or do something that is weird from the social perspective of the people, we all are people who suffer and feel. When I began to be more time with this girl people started to threat me like I was also someone weird and look at me like if I was not anymore “normal”, start to talk behind my back and say a lot of thing about our relationship that we’re not true, however I never backed down and in was for her during a long time and when anyone don’t try to understand her or look after her, she was all alone, that even her friends stop talking to her, and excluded from everyone, I was there for her. Hatred is such a powerful emotion that can make anyone feel less important or hurt them, to the point where they start to think about themselves as the society do.
2026-08-31 14:38:56