Nicole Holmes :
"I completely agree with this. For over 400 years, the systemic power structures of injustice, discrimination, and hate targeting Black Americans have remained deeply embedded, yet too many of us act as if those dynamics have magically disappeared.
We keep opening our arms, extending invites to 'the cookout,' and seeking validation from groups—whether the dominant power structure or other minority and immigrant communities—that routinely turn around, use the resources and paths paved by Black American struggle, and still disrespect us. When people talk down to us, call us lazy, or repeat harmful stereotypes, we shouldn't be surprised.
We have to hold ourselves accountable for allowing this cycle to continue. Stop accepting disrespect, stop begging for acceptance from people who show clear disdain for us, and start prioritizing our own community first."
2026-08-31 12:35:46