@profahmedhankir: You would NEVER, EVER have given them access to you if you knew back then what you know now about them and the impact they would have on your mind and nervous system… #MentalHealth #trauma #avoidant #narcissist

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lunae2024
Lunae2024 Gen❌67✌️🌟🪐⚡️🪬 :
You are so so correct!
2026-09-09 17:38:11
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melementi
melementi :
im lowkey glad i did tho, it made me who i am today, yeah it almost killed me and healing took time. but im grateful i lived through that experienced and was fortunate enough to heal and learn from it.
2026-09-08 13:38:41
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user45557354906322
Roberto :
I know that now.
2026-09-09 12:55:55
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ayeshahd6
Ayesha :
💯 percent. I would have RAN the other way
2026-08-31 11:46:00
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user1618931039599
user1618931039599 :
Tbh it was actually me, I didn’t have any self love or boundaries so I let that happen. Me now wouldn’t have given them access because I wouldn’t be interested at all
2026-08-31 10:56:46
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santipiva33
santipiva33 :
Тhе Міnd І Βеϲаmе gеnuіnеlу mаdе mе lοօĸ аt ϲеrtаіn раrtѕ οf mуѕеlf dіffеrеntlу.
2026-08-31 10:41:06
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inkedkisses69
inkedkisses69 :
stupid me took him back and he did exact thing he did last time
2026-09-01 03:22:45
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jey5274
Joanna :
Avoidant and narcissist in one. It’s emotional whiplash 🤦‍♀️they should go to jail for mental abuse 💯💪
2026-08-31 15:00:58
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here.we.go517
here we go :
Let me go back two years with what I know now
2026-08-31 10:31:50
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feefee83
FeeFee :
Totally !!I'm 65 now 35 years too late 🤔 but what a journey it's been , But If I knew then what I know now it would be a big fat NO
2026-08-31 12:53:29
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zaeranoor
zaeranoor :
Ladies please stay away from Narcissistic men 🙏 one clue is the rage they have and their eyes turning dark, once he starts saying unkind words to you. Run. He’s not having a bad day. He’s a bad person. Also if he walks ahead of you and leaves you straggling behind…leave him immediately and block his number. 🙏
2026-09-01 11:26:39
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suekeane272
Libbie Loves :
This made me cry because it’s so true
2026-08-31 10:55:35
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alrighthenbruh
🌴🪎welp :
So we all went crazy bc of that one person right …
2026-08-31 10:29:50
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yorkieuk10
HoldOnForOneMoreDay 🇬🇧 :
100% absolute fact! If only we could go back in time 🫶🫶
2026-08-31 16:07:47
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rollo_thomasi
RolloThomasi :
Absolutely I feel exactly that way. I hate myself sometimes for even loving them in the first place. I wish I knew then what I know now I would never have given them the time of day.
2026-09-01 08:41:50
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jics232
JICE :
Absolutely 💯 I would have made sure I would have never met him
2026-09-01 12:28:29
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herababy17
Hera :
I would of walked the other way
2026-08-31 18:38:10
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barriebarack
Barrie Barack :
I ruined my mind, my heart, my soul and my body - among many other crucial aspects in life, by trusting a person who would be happily dancing if I would end up worse. I will not give her that joy. 🥰
2026-09-01 03:50:24
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flowerj140
flowerj1 :
so true, I left him 17 years ago, it was the best thing I did, but I still avoid him!
2026-09-01 11:18:53
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vc_1971
V 😘 :
can I go back to 6 yrs ago and walk straight past him 😳 if only !
2026-08-31 15:01:33
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mfgsssb3pseudonym
Zue B :
Meant to write - there is more awareness of Narcissism
2026-08-31 13:45:52
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mstergianis57
Siciliankiss :
I would have never given birth to him
2026-08-31 11:14:29
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aussie_girl007
🌸AussieGirl🌸 :
yep but cant change the past unfortunately, just learn from it to not repeat the same mistake
2026-08-31 10:19:32
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simsmentyb
SK :
Sad thing is, I worry I still would. That familiarity is so dangerous for your nervous system, how abuse feels the norm and the default what somehow you tolerate... It's so weird
2026-08-31 10:42:36
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findingmywings
Finding My Wings :
hindsight is 20/20.
2026-09-02 14:27:45
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