@njnickandjez: “Ladies, bakit hinihintay mo pa siyang mag-message first? 👀 What if… he’s waiting for you too?” 1. There’s no rule na guy dapat ang first message. If you like his profile and you’re genuinely interested, it’s perfectly okay to message first. Dating is not a competition kung sino ang mas “desperate.” Sometimes, it’s simply about showing interest. 2. But don’t chase someone who isn’t giving effort. Okay lang gumawa ng first move, pero observe what happens after. If you’re always the one starting the conversation, asking questions, and keeping it alive—red flag na ‘yan. 🚩 Interest should be mutual. 3. Make your first message interesting. Instead of just saying “Hi” or “Hello,” give him something to respond to. Try commenting on something from his profile: “Hey! I noticed you love travelling. What’s your favourite country so far?” ✈️ 4. Don’t overthink your message. You don’t need a perfect opening line. Be natural, friendly, and confident. You’re not applying for a job—you’re getting to know someone. 😂 5. Let him meet you halfway. After you send the first message, give him space to respond. If he’s interested, he’ll also make an effort to continue the conversation. You opened the door—he should walk through it. 😉 6. Pay attention to consistency, not just chemistry. A guy can be charming and sweet for one day. What matters is whether his actions are consistent. Does he reply? Does he ask about you? Does he initiate sometimes? Actions speak louder than “good morning beautiful.” 😂 7. Your goal is not to get ANY guy to message you. Your goal is to find someone who is genuinely interested in you. Whether you send the first message or he does, the important thing is mutual effort, respect, and genuine intentions. ❤️ “So ladies, yes—you CAN message first! 💕 Just remember: making the first move is confidence, but constantly chasing someone who gives you nothing back is different. Know your worth, observe his effort, and let the connection grow naturally.” “What do you think? Should the girl or the guy message first? Comment below! 👇” Follow NJ International Dating Guide for more AFAM dating tips, online dating advice, and international relationship tips! 🌏❤️ #fyp #dating #Love #Relationship #couple

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