@profahmedhankir: An avoidant and/or narcissist will construct a narrative, story or frame and attempt to impose it on you to avoid accountability, shame and it feel better about themselves. You don’t have to accept or absorb. If anything, you can reject it. Assert your boundary. #trauma #avoidant #MentalHealth

Wilma 🇩🇰 🐈‍⬛ :

Are avoidants and narcissists basically the same in how they treat others? 🤔

Don’t call me Dr, Mister… :

Context please? Clearly this is passion and it is important to understand from a professional standpoint what is happening here

littlestchaosgremlin :

I don’t just reject it, I REBUKE it.

DKainyek :

I refuse it, I reject it, I decline it in Jesus name

S. S. Serendipity :

It’s wild because why does everyone else in every other aspect of my life give me such great feedback about who I am? Then he comes along and accuses me of trying to control him and also said I was gaslighting him… it’s such a serious accusation. And the fact that he thinks I’m actually capable of that just blows my mind. I adored him and accepted him for who he was and supported everything he ever did. But he needed me to be the bad guy to validate leaving me for no good reason.

CanTwoTan :

it's called sigma mindset

Finley :

Thank

EMPATHwHoCaREs :

thankyou needed to hear that I'm an adult that gets bullied by adults and their kids where I live constantly trying to shame me for my past 🙏🏽

lindavi002ART :

I refuse it and I reject it in Jesus name Amen 🙏

🌹🌹🌹🌹 :

Thank you for this ❤️a much needed reminder!!

Lizabb9688❤️🎶 :

Thank you for reminding me of this stuff. You are right on all points.

user8328169834162 :

we love your good help

WanBoredWeegie :

Thank u 😊

user86667032863983 :

Explained so well. It hits us right on. Great direction and sound insight. Oprah Should contact you for an interview. You are a great mentor bringing into the causation of environmental mental illness. You are brilliant and is so helpful. It helps us to understand others behavior to save your own mental health.

ximena :

Ι јuѕt fіnіѕhеd Тhе Μіnd Ι Веϲаmе bу Cаl Ηоllіnѕ аnd І’m ѕtіll thіnĸіng аbοut іt.

Baby gold :

Yasmin :

yessssssss

:🔮〪᪲ ּ ׄ ׅ꒰ ּ 𝑁𝗲𝘀sie ּ ꒱ׅ :

Βееn rеаdіng Τhе Μіnd Ι Βесаmе rеᴄеntlү аnd ѕоmе оf thе іdеаѕ hіt ԝаү ᴄlоѕеr tօ hоmе thаn Ι ехресtеd.

Newnr4 🇦🇺 :

What does that mean, exactly? I’m still isolated and on my own 🤷‍♀️It’s still an injustice

Victors Manifest :

wow.. my shoulders just dropped.. 😩🥱🤗

Daniela-Zaïda ❤️ :

yes 100%

kerrie1408 :

I dont leave the house because of them. Have bpd, cptsd and panic disorder. I need to assert boundaries and accept they wont ever accept accountability

good man :

Wow well said Sir! 🫡

Kezz :

I think you are amazing

Jesus :

Тhе Міnd І Веϲаmе gеnuіnеlү mаdе mе lօоĸ аt ϲеrtаіn раrtѕ оf mуѕеlf dіffеrеntlу.