Harry K-P | Shes Not Crazy
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Sue-Ellen :
You are good! Really good!
2026-09-16 04:19:05
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Thank you so much for understanding
2026-09-15 11:11:13
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Katie King2287 :
My ex threw a fit when I sent him the receipts for school uniform jumpers and PE gear in July. They have to be ordered through the school, that's when the orders had to be placed per the emails we both get, not a date of my choosing. So I said fine, you sort out all of the rest of the back to school stuff, I am hands off. No reminders, no texts, you just do it. Every so often I'd get the whole I have to sort out back to school so I can't do x, y and z. He showed up the day before school with runners, pencil cases and some copies. No shirts, trousers, bags, no binders and markers or the rest of the stuff on the list in the emails, hadn't paid the book rental fees... And he got mad at me for not telling him that was all part of it, despite the emails he gets from the school setting all of that out quite clearly. I was simultaneously in the wrong for organising back to school in advance and not organising back to school in advance. You can't win.
2026-08-31 12:53:54
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Scorpio girl :
So sick and tired of being asked for the list that I quit the relationship.
2026-08-31 21:52:50
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Harry K-P | Shes Not Crazy :
SOURCES 📌 The mental load framing on this came from @beahappierparent. Worth a follow, he’s very good on it. 📌 The chemistry: 🧬 Estrogen modulates serotonin synthesis, transport and receptor sensitivity, so serotonergic tone falls as estrogen falls after ovulation (Bethea et al., 2002, Frontiers in Neuroendocrinology; Rubinow et al., 1998, Am J Obstet Gynecol) 🧬 Luteal-phase serotonergic decline is why SSRIs work for PMS and PMDD, often within days rather than weeks (Steiner & Pearlstein, 2000, J Clin Psychiatry) 🧬 Estrogen upregulates oxytocin receptor expression (Gimpl & Fahrenholz, 2001, Physiological Reviews). The tend-and-befriend framing is Shelley Taylor, 2000, Psychological Review. 🧬 Estrogen and testosterone fall by roughly 50-85% across the post-ovulatory transition 📌 The load: 🧬 Anticipating and monitoring are the stages of household cognitive labour most likely to fall to women (Daminger, 2019, American Sociological Review) 🧬 Chronic vigilance carries measurable physiological cost, the allostatic load model (McEwen, 1998, NEJM) 📌 The judgement: 🧬 Intensive mothering as a cultural standard, and the asymmetry in how mothers and fathers are judged for identical parenting (Hays, 1996, The Cultural Contradictions of Motherhood)
2026-08-31 10:54:14
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suckin_diesel :
Women are expected to parent like they don’t also work and work like they’re not also a parent. No one has the same expectation of men.
2026-09-05 17:31:47
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Pat Ormond :
This is absoloute nonsense
2026-08-31 16:16:46
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Cheryll Hart :
My son and DIL had to go through first day of pre-k. Both of them were so upset leading up to he wasn't going to be with one of them. I knew how they felt. Trusting anyone else with your babies!!! Shes a SAHM he works outside. Their stress and anxiety was tangible. Grand was stressed by their stress. Son took the day off for first day so he could walk him in. DIL stayed in the car and cried. Son came back also crying. Every day Son takes Grand to school, DIL picks up.
2026-09-03 17:05:01
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gibbo :
men see things needing to be done and "announce" it instead of "doing" it 😒
2026-09-02 21:50:52
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Little miss Koh :
shit runs smoothly in my household, not a peep from anyone. i mess up a calendar entry or missed a note from the school about change in schedules and suddenly im not doing my job as a parent. i have a full time job i have to perform at as well mind you.
2026-09-01 01:31:19
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moggy :
Yeh I hated the look what WE did or the ask your mom
2026-08-31 11:15:11
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Misha 💜 ❌ :
Honestly all spot on. My husband thinks I’m nuts. I told him I have 6k things in Thu king about, preplanning, schedules…why? Because if I don’t no one will. He only thinks of the now.
2026-08-31 14:30:49
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Girls only :
School supplies, backpacks, water bottles, physicals for sports, eye dr appointments, annual physicals, haircuts, *all of the apps*, after school care, fire extinguisher under the sink, land line/ cell phone, entering sports into the family family calendar, coordinating sports dinners with mums you know, knowing which kids’s families you can trust because you know them, and have done the work since kindergarten, when to register for the next season, baking for the fundraising, the teachers names, where to find the homework, when are school pictures, sports pictures, catching the texts on web we have to be early, School Spirit Week, football game themes, and go to work, have a career, earn 80% less, on a good day, be 110% present at work, and make the house clean, and have food for dinner and lunches, and make time for *yourself.* Fine. Oh! And volunteering. And making sure your kids aren’t jerks. Done. All done. Everyone is fine. Except mum. We’re exhausted.
2026-09-02 04:15:53
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Di :
The way they treat you Just being a single mom divorced or not. Like his dad had EVER done anything and i got treated differently because I divorce9d him. That was in the 70's. Things haven't changed much have they
2026-09-03 21:41:17
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Amna Bihery :
these type of videos really bum me out, compared to type A moms, I am such a dead beat
2026-08-31 14:59:27
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juliareadsandwrites :
Recently, I’ve told my teen I would stop folding and putting away her clean laundry. She agreed to this, seeing it as me trusting her and giving her more responsibility. Because she’s a teenager, yes she does let it pile up and I have to force myself not to remind her. My husband gets frustrated and tells me that I’m not reminding her enough. I tell him that part of “training” our child to take responsibilities for her own chores is me not having to remind her to do it. And my husband does not get it.
2026-09-01 00:38:48
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olivesy :
If it was left up to my husband, our child wouldn't go back to school in new and correctly fitting uniform, new shoes, new kit, haircut etc. Why are they like this.
2026-08-31 11:15:06
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Funky_Loner❌️ G7 :
I'm so used to doing practically everything by myself that I just do it. No drama but no energy at the end of the day.
2026-08-31 15:53:23
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Coffee Sauceress :
Dads, google World Book Day. it's always in March. you'll either need a costume for your kids or school will designate an art project. if you can handle this at the very least it will help. it always catches us out.
2026-08-31 15:50:59
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Harry K-P | Shes Not Crazy :
Men, what’s one category you could take completely? Not a task. A category. Women, would you or your partner get more judged for how the kids showed up to school?
2026-08-31 10:55:08
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Paapeseed :
My ex husband lives an hour away. When it comes to back to school, he pays for half of the supplies, and that’s it.
2026-09-03 11:55:02
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My Spot At Your Spot :
I absolutely love your videos. 🥰💚
2026-08-31 15:57:12
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Kara :
me and my husband take categories! we have an open discussion when things come up about if we'll take it on or do it together. we also compare to do lists and will then help eachother, I sorted the school uniform this year, but, my husband works closer to the badge place, so he took that off my list to help me for example.
2026-08-31 14:06:44
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.tilde.0 :
Early
2026-08-31 10:57:27
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.tilde.0 :
This found my fyp!
2026-08-31 10:58:05
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