ask instead if they have a phantom ex. if so, go no further then situationship with this person. if not. they're lying. run
2026-08-31 17:19:32
476
🍃 :
i have bpd and i hate everyone i dont have a favourite person
2026-09-01 19:00:40
978
Brendead :
Lmao if you’re a bpd’s favorite person trust me you’ll know
2026-09-01 17:59:57
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🎃 ᗷᒪᑌᗷᑌᘜ 👻 :
having an fp is mental fucking anguish. i spent over two years dealing with an fp. it got to a point i was spiraling near constantly over him and everything was centered around him. 😭
2026-08-31 15:04:47
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haileydoster0730 :
I have bpd and bipolar 1 it gets real weird real quick
2026-08-31 16:57:39
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Afton 🦇 (#1 kaku fan) :
“you act like the girl from obsession go away” damn okay 😭✌ mb gang
2026-08-31 23:47:13
846
Ⓜ️ℹ️🅚📧🆈 :
people irl: hi how are you
2026-10-06 07:34:53
1
lolarose0697 :
I have bpd and DID disorder too 😩😩😩
2026-08-31 13:04:53
95
♡ 𝔏𝔢𝔢𝔨𝔰 ♡ :
I hate how romanticized bpd is. its not fun and cutesy
2026-08-31 21:40:23
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🏳️⚧️💜Heather💜🏳️⚧️ :
As someone's fp, you really don't want that, for you and for them
2026-08-31 14:09:23
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lexcrashedout :
My best friend has had a bpd friend before and she asked me if she was mine when I told her I had bpd..... she is but that girl gets it and as a result she is healing me so much. She always tells me what's going on if it's going to be a change in communication and anything I am struggling with if I can try to slow the split she is able to realize it's not "real" ..... I hit her car and she jumped up said it's okay! I love you! Gave me a hug and the spiral stopped. That and therapy has been a game changer in bpd.
2026-08-31 13:07:43
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SILAS !! :
i genuinely fucking hate having this disorder.
2026-08-31 20:00:36
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spider :
As someone who was unwillingly deemed a favorite person to someone, it is not you that is their favorite, it's the version they think will stay the most attached to them. It is not a healthy dynamic.
2026-09-02 13:45:55
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mad hatter :
the type of emotional support and reassurance needed to be given round the clock is exhausting especially when u have ur own struggles. its not all good there is a lot of bad that they go through. if they question r love or loyalty for a second it destroys them. from my experience
2026-08-31 19:04:44
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casual.implosion.of.america. :
I was someone's favorite person once and he was actually really mean to me. He held me to this ridiculous standard and when I wasn't on the pedestal, he acted as if I was totally subhuman. There was no in-between.
2026-09-02 20:08:07
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🇵🇸IBS Warrior🇵🇸 :
I have my fp blocked on all platforms because I was sick of feeling like a crazy person
2026-09-01 00:10:41
21
Sájeh (Mika) :
im pretty sure I was someone fp and it ended up ruining our friendship
2026-08-31 15:08:57
20
RisingRaven23 :
Been with my life partner for 17 years, she is diagnosed with BPD. So many people see that terminology “favorite person” and they only think of the word favorite. Which is a huge mistake. Keep doin your stuff dude I’m rootin for ya! :)
2026-09-01 13:26:01
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Bekbbeljd :
My bf is my fp . I am so sprry for him and am trying to chill a bit
2026-08-31 18:48:16
7
🎀 :
im my bf favorite person and its not all sunshines and rainbows all the time, it takes a lot of talking, coping to get where we are now
2026-09-01 07:37:14
45
dippy_mcskippy :
as someone with out BPD, what if two people with BPD were each other's FP?
2026-09-01 18:23:20
5
ally🎠 :
having a fp, relationship or friendship, is so so so draining for the fp and i try so so hard to
2026-08-31 16:41:29
12
🦇 :
like i will actually scream in your face because you said something to me in a tone i didn’t like and tell you to stfu and then 5 minutes later will come to you and stand awkwardly without saying a word waiting for you to call me over so i can make sure you’re not mad at me so i can say sorry and if you DONT call me over i will start the fight all over again and go away for another 5 minutes just to do it all over again until you call me over. you don’t want to be a FP.
2026-09-02 19:17:31
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Katie :
You will never ever ever match the favorite person. I have in my head because it’s not actually the person. It’s the idea you don’t want that it is no it’s not a good time.
2026-08-31 17:49:28
6
Bitsy_boo💕 :
I’ve been someone’s favorite person before it ended our relationship
2026-08-31 15:29:34
7
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