Lee Z :
We cannot blame, shame or demand accountability from those who were never given the capacity to offer that to us nor to show up in any other way that was not what we needed or expected. Expect demand hold accountable people for things that which they were never given the capacity to offer is to be entitled in your own pride, ignorance, and pity party. My apologies if the truth offends, however, when cannot be free of victimhood, if they insist upon remaining a victim, a victim to what a victim to their own foolishness and pride and ignorance and entitlement and victimhood.. most likely your parents didn’t show up in the way you needed them to offer support guide love or just disappointed you didn’t meet your expectations simply because they were never shown by their parents and so one cannot offer others that which is not already in them to offer offer. You don’t just wake up and automatically know the rules guidelines ins and outs of being a parent. In fact, most parents have the knowledge and understanding of above field mouse when it comes to things they were never taught nor shown nor provided nor guided…. no, the journey of healing and learning is perpetual and continual it is lifelong and often times it is obstacles hurdles, challenges, mistakes, pain, suffering walking through the fires regrets guilt that is why grandparents are so wise and seem like they knew the playbook all along no it’s because they learned along the way, they went through the hard times they suffered the cause suffering that is what perpetuates the generational trauma cycle. Each generation can only offer projection toxicity trauma onto the next because 1)they lack awareness 2)the lack greater understanding, 3)lack higher knowledge 4)the lack any need or desire for change, even if they want to change the slightest clue on how to most were blessed and ignorance😆❤️
2026-09-01 18:13:15