@profahmedhankir: Why did you turn a blind eye to the red flags that were staring at you in the face? Why did you betray yourself? Abandon yourself? Why didn’t you protect yourself? Love yourself? Respect yourself? #MentalHealth #trauma #avoidant #narcissist
100% and I can’t stop beating myself up about! I saw it all from the beginning and ignored the lot until the hurt became physical and that couldn’t be ignored. I hate myself for staying, trying, caring when he told and treat me like I was nothing! I’m self-sufficient, independent, educated, financially stable etc. and I let this monster in. I used to like who I was, but can’t say that now.
2026-08-31 15:09:22
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RETURN OF JSON :
I was traumatised as a child so didn’t know better no one was there for me and the people who was supposed to be there for me traumatised me I.e family they had a boundary they made up and wanted me to stay in that boundary when I started questioning it I was called the black sheep and thrown into the pits of hell!! I had to understand Hell first before I could understand myself !!! I could see I was in Hell and the rest of the world in heaven
2026-09-01 08:23:51
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roisin :
i forgive myself for not knowing any better
2026-08-31 22:03:06
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Kendall :
I tried therapy 4 times. A disaster each time. It’s so hard to find the right therapist. And I have ptsd from trauma and major depressive order. It’s to late for therapy
2026-09-03 05:42:44
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Veronica 🌹 :
Thank you so much. I needed to hear that today. God bless you 🙏
2026-09-04 18:59:24
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Karen Williams :
wolf in sheeps clothing
2026-08-31 17:04:44
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Axel-Aida Foerster :
I love this! You are so right
2026-09-01 10:45:37
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tonis154 :
How true! No more access 😊
2026-09-05 17:41:52
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Maria Gonzalez69883 :
Cause we were already hooked up into the fake love they showed ..
2026-08-31 17:14:41
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🍉EndAllWars🧿 :
Because I got sick and couldn’t work and then trusted what they said about providing and now I have no out so I have to turn a blind eye to all the red flags 🚩
2026-08-31 14:01:43
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Fiona Tammam :
Trauma bonded , weak Situation , hoping they would change !
2026-08-31 14:51:03
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tweetybird1 :
Why do I keep allowing others to use me because I have a kind heart
2026-09-02 20:41:40
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Angelacasale1961 :
yes the red flags were there from the start and I chose not to believe for 3 years
2026-09-02 09:18:33
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Jennifer :
Because I tought myself it wasn’t important as a child! 💔 I had to survive 😭
2026-09-01 14:17:43
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Sophie :
What about all the people who can not afford therapy?
2026-09-01 00:17:01
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willow :
i didnt know how to protect myself
2026-08-31 18:12:34
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Silvana Talevska :
Catastrophic trauma, complicated grief and dehumanization was not due to ignoring red flags in my situation.
2026-08-31 22:05:47
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Brenda Mac Bride :
Totally agree with you
2026-09-08 01:56:24
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CyB€LL€💙 :
Agree. not many people can afford therapy.
2026-09-05 04:16:08
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BJ 🌹 :
🙏
2026-09-03 00:05:13
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Cecilia Banks :
I felt like I needed to confront the dragon
2026-09-02 12:24:44
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6swet :
true my friend
2026-09-02 10:52:35
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Moonray :
Where do i sign up?? 🧐🧐🧐
2026-09-02 09:58:39
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