@phoenixpathway: He Blames The Drama To Distract From What Started It When he complains about constant fighting, notice how his focus lands entirely on your reaction, your tone, and how long the argument lasted, while the behavior that triggered the conflict gets completely ignored. He wants a version of peace that requires you to have less of a response while he keeps the choices that caused the issue. Stop letting him turn your valid emotional reaction into the primary problem in the relationship. Keep the conversation anchored directly to the behavior that started the argument in the first place. #relationshipadvice #datingtipsforwomen #feminineenergy #knowyourworth
Ok so all of these videos definitely enlightens one to notice that they truly are wasting their time investing in unhealthy relationships. I’m not sure if I’ve missed the ones that help you navigate the emotional instability that comes from trying to cut ties with that relationship. The hot/cold nice/evil happy/mad that becomes the new standard and treatment once you set your boundaries. How does one rebuild their ability to no longer consider and tippy toe around that persons expectations and reactions after 20 years of putting them first? I honestly feel like I don’t know how to think for myself anymore.
2026-09-07 03:53:18
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huntiiiii :
Tone is only an issue when it's coming from me 🤔
2026-08-31 15:31:02
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Ticole :
It’s always my tone. He could be in the wrong but if I speak to him in the “wrong tone” (my voice, apparently) then that’s why he’s being an asshole to me - because I’m such a bitch all the time. So I say ok cool well let’s just move on then since we can’t figure this out and suddenly he doesn’t want that 🥴
2026-08-31 14:00:50
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Katelynn King :
Thank you. I needed this so much.
2026-09-03 03:13:55
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Antifascist Barbarian :
This is insightful af
2026-08-31 18:42:56
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✨ms.amy✨ :
He says this every single time:.... "I'm reacting to your action, I'm allowed to react" or "which came first, the chicken or the egg". Zero accountability. It's maddening.
2026-08-31 20:32:30
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bimby :
If you fix the tone it will be that you are bothered by the issue at all. That will be the "drama." Anything to evade accountability
2026-09-04 02:04:27
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Daniella La Bella :
Ooh ooh! I got one!! How about when he would constantly scream sneeze and scare the shit out of me and then tell me “can’t help it” but then sneezes like a normal person other times. How dare I ask him to stop, complain about it, and finally towards the end how dare I yell at him about it after the millionth time with adrenaline and heart racing from him scaring the shit out of me and just being sick to death of him not caring how much it affected me. Ugh.
2026-08-31 16:00:47
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Swiss Army Amber | MN Realtor :
He complains “it’s the same topic, over and over the same thing” when it’s not and it’s slightly different but same behaviors causing another thing. Call out a behavior and he takes it as “you call me a selfish narcissist” when you just called out selfish and narcissistic behaviors. They hear it a way and then believe that vs what you’re actually saying. No matter how calm and non emotional you got. Exhausting and sad.
2026-09-01 12:30:54
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Andi :
He would always tell me that I need to learn to regulate my emotions and stop expecting him to do it for me.
2026-08-31 13:39:14
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Revannya :
He had a pretty SWEET deal.
2026-08-31 18:19:55
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Abby Wilson 🎀 :
Yep
2026-09-03 20:14:10
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🦋JC Driver🖤 :
he says whooo.. and im like 🦉
2026-08-31 15:15:27
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Dianne Markus :
There’s no what if.
2026-08-31 18:08:39
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Wendy ✌🏻💙☀️ :
Yep. Textbook. Every time.
2026-08-31 17:17:52
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CrazyBitchChronicles :
Every time
2026-08-31 14:32:16
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tara :
It’s not drama u know I’m not a drama person I like peace I went there along
2026-08-31 18:44:21
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Living In Faith Off Grid :
You’re so smart. If only all men
2026-09-04 10:17:16
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Crystal Newman :
Good observation but why are we sisters always needing strategies to manipulate men into growing up?
2026-08-31 14:49:37
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DJSunflowerGirl :
💜💜💜
2026-08-31 22:37:23
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India_Spillman :
✅️
2026-09-01 05:30:15
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