@earnedwellness: Many times people can be invested in a relationship where the one person feels better when the other one is consistently struggling. It may allow them to feel Ike they have some value as the other person consistently depends on them. This can be very activating when the other person starts to get better and address their issues. #trauma #MentalHealth #cptsd #ptsd #depression

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vftm12
vftm11 :
Heyyy it’s my family! They’re so happy when I’m miserable and turn on a dime when I’m happy
2026-08-31 16:31:57
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quinnquirky
Quinn :
Is this along the same vein when somebody loses interest in the other person when they are no longer struggling?
2026-08-31 19:16:27
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circasalo
𝓢𝓪𝓵𝓪𝓪𝓷 ᴀᴋᴀ 𐌔𐌀𐌋ó𐌌𐌄 ♘ :
Your videos remind me that there are safe people out there. After over a decade of therapeutic failure and trauma, I actually feel like if I were your client, I wouldn’t be afraid of opening up and being honest.
2026-08-31 18:13:11
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forestrein
ReiN :
Is this why I experience people trying to keep me in a constant state of confusion despite my best efforts to heal my brain fog? It makes me sad bc why can't they understand that "love" should mean helping someone instead of hurting them?
2026-08-31 16:26:23
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onesaladfromthesaladbar
skeeter valentine :
i do feel that i lose my value if someone "gets better" and doesn't "need" me anymore but i never want them to stay in a stuck state, i still want them to progress and reach their full potential and be their best version of themselves, i want them to thrive and be happy and i'll do anything i can to get them there BUT I DO GET DROPPED EVERY TIME THEY REACH THAT 😂 what do we call this 😫 cause it's not an unfounded fear
2026-09-01 13:34:05
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555xena
555xena :
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2026-09-03 01:00:45
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