Aswear no be lie, since I reach 40 like dis I no Dey fear anything again. At dis my old age, u wan dey whine me, NO!
2026-09-01 00:09:29
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motolinc :
I think say na only me. No matter who you are to me if your presence in my life is going to alter my peace I will move away from you. I donโt impress anyone, no societal or peer pressure and the contentment I have these days is top notch. No competitive friendships or relationships with anyone I am 43 I canโt allow anyone to turn me to pushover.
2026-08-31 21:47:17
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Teegurl๐๐ :
It gets worse when you turn 50. The self love from then can be very selfish if not checked. At 40, you start picking your circle and by 50, you no longer give a damn.
2026-09-01 04:31:56
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Busadelbabyfacecollections :
Yes o, this is me, any small thing now! I would say am over 40 you canโt be tossing me up & down, 40 comes with a lot of common sense
2026-08-31 19:34:21
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temmy5555 :
I was 40yrs last year the way I always stood my ground on issues Ehn, you are not alone my sister. I value my space more than anything
2026-08-31 16:12:56
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QueeN๐TomarO :
Honestly ma, I was abused too, a fool at 40 is a fool forever, not 40 dis days, its start from 30,, I received sense immediately I clocked 30, lessons must be learnt
2026-09-03 14:13:11
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H&H fabrics and more ๐ณ๐ฌ๐ณ๐ฌ :
I havenโt reach 40 but am setting boundaries already
2026-08-31 18:03:01
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Deseniam store (wholesaler) :
Setting boundaries already โฆ cause I don too mumu๐๐๐
Self love is the best even if is my husband, my sisters my brothers i can't do any that I will regret again otilo.
2026-09-24 06:19:46
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Aduke๐ :
Honestly my sister rest of mind come plenty
2026-08-31 21:05:00
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Samueldo7 :
As in ,my sister it's true I don't give a damn this time around. My no is no why my yes is yes,
2026-09-01 15:58:26
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funmite :
I choose mine while I was 35th coz I am not people pleaser and I am very blunt with no regrets ๐ oju ti ri to ooo, my mental health is very important ๐ฅฐ
2026-09-01 12:07:26
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Aisha๐ค๐ธ :
It even comes from the mid- thirties. The ability to say โNoโ without any guilt. And putting people pleasing in the bin. It is a good feeling and gives peace of mind.
2026-09-01 09:03:50
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OLAMY 85 โโโ :
I swear ๐๐๐ infact me too I don't understand how I come dajupa now ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ
2026-09-01 17:47:48
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TOKE EGGS AND FOODSTUFFS :
I ask assistance of 75k for my son acceptance fee's from my late husband family since 12years now they don't support me oo,
THE next thing their late father elder brother insulted me if am tired I should return them,I insulted him back ni to Time
2026-09-01 19:50:13
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๐ซ๐ซABIDEMI๐ซ๐ซ :
they took me for granted ๐ญ
they even say am mumu ๐ straight away I set my boundaries ๐
2026-09-01 10:20:59
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BโKรกt Luxury ๐ฆ :
This is me and am not even close to 40yrs
2026-08-31 16:28:39
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Olami desiree :
I don't even feel like am 41 I have more sense and even work on my marriage and am in a very good space now
2026-09-01 13:40:19
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Bimmy :
kuku mention my name my sister the way I get sense now enn even me I begin to dey fear myself I don't please people to displeased myself o I can only do what I can do
2026-09-01 08:17:11
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enimoneny๐ฅฐ๐๐๐คฉ๐คฉ :
same here
2026-09-28 10:15:28
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Slay with OLORI ALBUSHRAY :
Olohun seh
2026-09-19 20:16:47
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Toyin :
yes o
2026-09-19 10:03:17
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Ibrahimidayat71 Idayah71 :
so lovely
2026-08-31 16:13:04
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