@christie.heals: Stop explaining yourself to people who keep pretending they don’t understand. 🤡 #HealingJourney #boundaries #LifeAdvice #relationshipadvice #narcissism

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mzbala
MzBala :
overexplaining bc you fear they misunderstand, and/or trauma response, coping mechanisms, insecurity. There are really many reasons why it happens....
2026-08-31 19:19:15
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atigesxacn5
Susan :
On the flip side- if I don’t over explain and account for every minute, action & encounter…I’m HIDING something 🤪 there is no win inside this.
2026-08-31 23:52:36
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electrician277
Hellooooo :
Ok but how do I get rid of the compulsive need to over explain?! I feel like a soda can that was just shaken too much if I don’t…
2026-09-01 11:56:20
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rebeljedi7
RebelJedi :
oh for sure. I make my point once. you heard me. if not, thats your problem now.
2026-08-31 19:52:51
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thebareminimumqueen
thebareminimumqueen :
I’m not begging. I want to be heard, but I feel unseen. That’s why I over-explain. I believe there are many different reasons people over explain. 👑
2026-08-31 17:31:51
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littlesimonboo2
LittleSimonBoo :
come again? 🤗🤗🤗😉💐😂😂😂😂
2026-09-01 11:15:22
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marianaesposito81
Mariana Esposito :
Thank you! You have been helping me sooook much! Thank you! Really!
2026-09-04 03:56:38
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moonandmidheaven
Kaitlyn Dawn :
Lesson learned (the hard way) - last thing I wanna do is beg!
2026-09-01 02:44:28
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jessicaturley8
JessielovesJesus :
I’ve learned so much ch from you!! All these years I thought my mom just hated me but she’s narcissistic. I never knew it had a name! I’m 60, she’s 82 and worse now than ever before
2026-09-01 05:33:30
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shespinsfire
SheSpinsFire :
Fuck yah. I am going to think of this every time I want to over explain. It makes me cringe. I will stop. ✨
2026-09-01 16:06:23
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kirstenshelby4
kirstenshelby4 :
Damn. You’re right!
2026-09-01 02:38:17
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alipol85
alipol85 :
Oh ok then 😕 - I guess I need a whole new approach then…
2026-09-01 13:11:32
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santinocorleonem
Santi :
it's internalized Fawning trauma response, shame bases identity
2026-09-16 02:26:53
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thegolfingprofessor
Dr. Andrea Hogan :
Truth
2026-09-01 16:18:57
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stardust_and_vines
🩷 :
Silence is a super power use it
2026-09-01 06:11:58
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pishposhomg
hawaiianrain :
Oooh yeah that's it for sure!!!!
2026-08-31 16:22:12
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samaha964
SamahA :
genuinely how to go through life after having everyone dealing with you this way?
2026-08-31 21:00:27
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flynn_1177
🦖F L Y N N 🥭🦕 :
Hi
2026-08-31 16:17:22
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stevecook633
Boyski 🇬🇧 :
[Red heart]
2026-09-26 14:03:36
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wild.magick
ᴡiʟd :
or rhey just dpnt get it. anywho.not pur business
2026-09-02 11:11:15
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canada_cats1992
canada_cats1992 :
your only reffering to toxic people right ?
2026-09-19 05:47:14
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bubblegum.raindropx
Bubblegum Raindrop ♡ :
I’ve noticed that my husband doesn’t listen; so I’ve taken advantage of that.
2026-09-07 18:00:40
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good.man589
good man :
2026-09-04 20:00:57
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pureaction3
Moloch Pickle :
If it’s explaining feeling in a logical conversation that shit don’t matter.
2026-09-04 03:41:18
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fresnostatebulldog
FresnoStateBulldogs :
you're right beautiful and you shouldn't have to.
2026-08-31 17:01:58
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