I think most people are experiencing limerence and don’t even realize it. It’s a good habit when you first start dating someone to keep your thoughts about the present and what’s happening now. You can think about the future with someone when the relationship progresses.
2026-08-31 23:32:24
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Rose Michelle :
This is my issue. Lack of boundaries w/ my fantasies!!
2026-08-31 22:46:28
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Mark :
This hurts the partner too. I lived the other side of it. She already had a whole version of me that wasn’t real, so we never actually built the relationship together. I wanted to know her and be known. It stayed surface-level because the future was already written. Self-boundaries are kindness to the other person as well.
2026-08-31 22:56:34
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🦚 :
NO future faking ! The brain does not know the difference between vivid imagination and reality
2026-09-01 16:18:43
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savrose 🤍 :
ok but how do u not
2026-09-01 04:08:32
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idocoolshit :
A crush is a lack of information
2026-09-01 20:14:03
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carlos :
god this is sooo meeeee. im seeing a guy rn and this is the first time ive ever actually tried to be normal and take it slow. blahhhh it's so hard
2026-09-01 01:42:37
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Bay_mermaid408🧜🏼♀️🌉♐️🎨 :
This is how I self sabotage 😭😭
2026-09-01 08:48:58
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cheetahgirl2567 :
You are my therapist
2026-08-31 16:23:37
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julia :
Ur so lucky to have gotten that username
2026-08-31 16:44:35
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Eric :
Probably my biggest problem but also caring too much about someone.
2026-08-31 18:09:41
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Westons34 :
words are easy to say. So easy to just say "set boundaries for youself" like its just that easy. Love does wild things to a person's head, and some people will easily justify crossing their own boundaries for love
2026-09-01 22:01:40
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kyerin598 :
Ok but how do I actually get my brain to do this 😂
2026-09-01 15:31:28
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Someone :
Literally your saving me I love you bbg thank you
2026-09-23 03:22:44
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The Pragmatist 🇺🇸 :
I agree. You really need to keep your feelings in check and see how it plays out, especially in the early months.
2026-09-01 02:30:16
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Amara 💄 :
Yeah never give them the benefit of the doubt
2026-09-01 06:32:35
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No name :
what if my girl IS the idealised version that ive created in my mind?
2026-09-04 15:02:52
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Aiy :
I just had a reality check with something like this. I'm learning what I want and what to look for!
2026-09-01 01:02:01
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LyssySho🔥🏳️🌈 :
Exactly why when i decided to put myself out there again, i wanted to have a journal to document my needs, wants, what i deserve… new desires etc. to help remind myself of my worth but also get a clearer picture of what i really want in a partner. Sometimes we say “ I HAVE NO TYPE” when tbh its not really true lol. Its that we are more flexible with options. But we all have a type…. And it don’t literally have to be just about looks. I’m also doing a series on here documenting this journey!
2026-09-01 19:10:15
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user448255559133 :
This is great. Limerence is brutal.
2026-10-11 20:32:05
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Yo :
you know what, you caught me in the middle of doing exactly that. thank you for this video ❤️
2026-09-01 16:52:33
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Lauren Snyder :
I genuinely have been doing this my entire life and I have no idea how to not do this. Every single relationship I’ve been in has been built on extreme Limerance.
2026-09-25 15:53:30
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RaeWithTheWaves🌈 :
This is my problem. I told myself next time I date someone I need a personal notebook to just get out any impulsive quick moving thing I want to say and get it out my system because idk what else to do 😭
2026-09-01 17:44:32
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scrpiosunye :
obsessed already and I don’t like some of the things that I’ve seen aesthetic wise lol
2026-09-02 00:34:44
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