@treswinn: You have to take a step back at some point and realize these people know exactly what they’re doing. They will lie to you routinely, and they will make promises saying, “Oops my bad,” and look at you like you’re insane for calling out their continued abuse. #reactiveabuse #abuse #survivor #toxic #dating
There's no such thing as reactive abuse. It's self defense
2026-09-01 04:41:31
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🫧 BuBBLy BaBe 🫧 ! :
no they actually wouldn’t admit to tapping your shoulder, they frame it to where you’re apparently blowing up for no reason and that they haven’t done anything. everything else is correct
2026-09-01 03:34:38
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Asya :
he used to do this to me all the time, and it made me feel so awful like i was a bad person bc how else am i going to respond aftervtelling you no so many times, but then i looked like a monster for over reacting
2026-09-04 13:18:36
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Sovereign Glitch :
It’s REACTING TO ABUSE. It’s not abuse. Stop calling it that.
2026-09-01 11:39:25
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LeighCook :
So, most women to men
2026-09-02 12:53:45
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𝒦𝒶𝓉𝒽𝑒𝓇𝒾𝓃𝑒🪽🧸 :
DARVO is one of the most revolting things someone can do to another human being. And of course it goes on behind closed doors (no witnesses) so people only see the reaction to potentially years of antagonising, abuse etc. it is actually horrific. And then they will say look that's how they actually are. what ive learnt is to stay tf away from these types of people if you can or nip it in the bud RIGHT AWAY.
2026-09-02 12:49:56
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Kromei :
What if i just grab their face and kiss them
2026-09-04 12:13:48
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Vivian :
Never delete this. It finally made something click
2026-09-02 06:17:31
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BelindaW88 :
I stay far away from those wackos
2026-09-01 01:15:46
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⟡⋅˚₊‧ 𝒮𝑜𝒻𝒾𝑒 ‧₊˚⋅⟡ :
My teacher actually did this to me
2026-09-04 13:17:42
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Laternator :
So basically every YouTube prankster
2026-09-04 12:58:46
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Ur Father <3 :
that’s how my ex made me feel
2026-09-04 09:22:24
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MistaSquiqSniffa :
instead turn around and calmly insult and ragebait them
2026-09-04 09:42:16
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Iryna Kot :
That’s what we call provocation
2026-09-01 01:53:20
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Emily Jean9 :
Very accurate.
2026-08-31 21:15:40
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⛧Jennifer⛧ :
my entire family
2026-09-01 01:46:42
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sb4l.da :
This happened to me, I ended up shaving my head then the next day at work I crashed out on a rude customer. I got fired
2026-08-31 21:30:46
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OfficialDreTony :
Reading comments and realizing they don't understand what Reactive Abuse really is, even after he explained it. 😂 People, the abuser is the person constantly poking at you to get a negative reaction out of YOU to prove YOU are a bad person. The person who finally reacted is the victim.
2026-09-02 15:45:35
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Sethinaa :
My fucking mother.
2026-09-01 19:39:02
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euphoria.gurl :
Pretty much just happened to BLACK people here in the USA , let alone the whole world
2026-09-01 17:09:48
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Eliana :
That's what toxic narsissistic families do to the scapegoat, then they use your reactions to "prove" that you are the crazy one. Then they deny, deny and deny. They're really fucked up in their heads.
2026-09-03 10:59:16
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