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Ang | Detour :
The guy I'm seeing now ended the first date with "tell me exactly what I need to do to keep this thing going"💀💀💀💀
2026-09-01 12:31:11
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FaceYourSilence :
I can’t go on a date with him for the next ten days and he was like “well you need to go grocery shopping right? I’ll pick you up let’s go”
2026-09-01 01:01:29
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Jade Knight :
Absolutely it’s such a ick when they seem nonchalant
2026-09-01 06:11:48
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spillin.spiritualitea :
Yes but also easy to confuse with love bombing 😬
2026-09-01 03:22:38
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Persephone ✨ :
I feel like more men just need to develop a sense of urgency like, in general
2026-09-01 17:03:19
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siaraluvshorses :
Over a year later and I’m still an emergency to that man 😛
2026-09-01 11:57:37
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xoxo Merianne :
They can have an emergency while I take my time 💅
2026-08-31 23:48:47
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lovebugalfiche 🤍 :
Men know what they want!
2026-08-31 22:43:20
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April Ham Lincoln :
I agree. Men will move heaven and earth if they really want you to the degree they should.
2026-09-01 01:22:08
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vvicieuse :
My bf ended our first date with “how long before you usually feel comfortable getting in a relationship”. He then waited a few weeks then asked me weekly if we could be exclusive 😉
2026-09-04 00:45:25
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brenna 💌 :
Absolutely! And men are not in a rush to date/marry women that they aren’t afraid to lose
2026-09-03 21:28:32
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harpersmumm :
This, unfortunately is why I respond so well to love bombing
2026-09-03 18:29:14
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🌙 Aggie ✨ :
Absolutely! I met my now boyfriend and he has not been nonchalant… ever. So refreshing and we’re more in love than I could ask for.
2026-08-31 20:03:59
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mchrgal :
Never in my life have I had this happen to me
2026-09-02 22:49:52
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sjdhhsjkajddbsbs :
So true my husband was soooo quick and he was typically always a shy guy. He said “something about you made me know i needed to leave my comfort zone, couldn’t miss out on you”
2026-09-01 21:32:51
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Georgia 🌸 :
2 years in and he still has it. And it helps I tell him I was being hit on the oil change place so my next appointment he made sure he came and got me 🤣🤣😭🤣
2026-09-02 16:58:53
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MONARI SKIN ™️ :
Yes yes yes and yes always ✨
2026-09-03 22:29:56
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🦋 :
I met a man like this 3 years ago… and now we’re married 🥰 men will make it SO clear to you that they’re serious about you! Don’t waste your time with non chalant losers
2026-09-02 01:59:19
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Marissa Bruno :
The way men will assume drake is buying us a yacht and we have 900 men in our DMs but then will stand still and move with zerooooo effort or intention just comes from a lack of security within themselves
2026-09-02 15:18:25
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sarahlynn :
This can also be a huge red flag of love bombing. My best relationships were the ones that were just natural. Especially as a busy woman who is already pulled in a million directions- another “urgency” is not going to make me feel safe- a relaxed quiet consistent man is 👏
2026-08-31 22:36:39
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mandypandy03 :
My boyfriend of 8 months is very outspoken about how he felt when we met. He said that in the beginning, keeping even a slight distance from me out of fear of coming on too strong was like torture to him. But when he found out I was on the same page with my intentions, he opened the floodgates! 😅 He does everything for me and I don't even ask. He brings me coffee every morning on his way to work (I live on his commute), he door-dashes lunch to me at least twice a week, he plans and pays for all our dates, and he's always coming up with new ways to show me he's thinking of me. He talks about meeting me as such a sigh of relief. Like he had all this love to give to someone but he never found the right person to share it with. He constantly tells me that he's making up for all the lost time before he met me 🥰 (And before anyone says it, no he's not love-bombing me. He's always been like this and he's never wavered)
2026-09-01 20:31:59
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lricela :
YES, but be cautious. I divorced a man who did this. He love bombed the shit out of me.
2026-09-01 20:05:46
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Janiecyxo :
Okay but how do you distinguish their urgency from lovebombing??
2026-09-01 15:09:41
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𝕊𝕒𝕣𝕒𝕙•°*” :
I had this with a guy 🥹🥹🥹 It was so wonderful. It felt so real. He wanted to see me all the time, he deleted Hinge promptly. But he turned out to be an avoidant and took it all back after a few months :/ But at least I’ll know what to look for now
2026-09-01 21:16:36
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Jesse J Goodeaux :
My now husband was never once unclear about how much he wanted me. We’ve been basically married since our first date. Haven’t been apart since
2026-09-01 17:37:08
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