@relationalalchemy: Every relationship contains blind spots and wounds. But sometimes those wounds collide so intensely that they become the main thing happening. Neither person can clearly see the other—or respond to what’s actually happening—because everything is being filtered through fear, protection, and distortion. So enormous amounts of love and dedication get poured into a hole: depletion, anger, pain, a brief moment of finding each other again… and then back into the cycle. The way out begins with seeing the pattern clearly—not simply trying harder inside it. #relationshippatterns #traumabonding #relationshiphealing #toxicrelationship #attachmenthealing

Nick Shrewsbury

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Monday 31 August 2026 20:07:14 GMT