@christopherseiter: Kind Empathetic People Are Hardest For An Avoidant To Move On From #anxiety #commitment #avoidant #attachmentstyle #avoidantex #dating #breakups #nocontact

💤 :

avoidants only cant move on from people who hurt them like shit, meanwhile people who never did anything to them they can get over them in days lmao

Amelia 🪶🧿⚖️ :

Phantom X’s are usually healthy Secure attachment styles

tumadree :

My ex had two kids with two baby mamas. He still had access to them even after their breakup. I’m the only ex he will never have access to again. He’s texted me already and reached out but I know there is nothing there for me. I think he hates that more than anything. Never being able to talk to me again. I was extremely kind, empathetic, patient, respectful and supportive with him. Instead of being grateful he took advantage of it. I always told him eventually I would walk away and he wouldn’t hear from me again. I kept my word.

ERASER :

i am an Avoidant as well. and i want to learn how to be close to someone and stay without getting scared or terrafied. but i dont know how. all i know is that i dont want my partner to feel played or hurt them

M_Sko :

He discarded me out of nowhere and has already replaced me. I don’t feel like he give me a second thought. I just feel used.

Keith Breckenridge :

What’s your thoughts on if you’re avoidant claims to be empathic? She tells me she feels other people’s pain, which just for me makes us truly more confusing.

Bea :

My now avoidant ex-boyfriend left me a month ago crying saying that he felt guilty for not giving me the affection I need, that I am good and empathetic with him. But he hasn't spoken to me since that day, I guess he already forgot about me?

Kayyyy :

Yep he tried for 1.5yrs to ghost me and move on and whatever. He finally came back and I was here for him as a friend and now it’s developing

🫧🩵🥥 :

Can you speak about avoidants in friendships? After getting close to someone I thought was a good friend, they completely ghosted me and it’s been 2 years now. They try to be in my orbit but for my sanity I had to block

𝓀𝒶𝓇𝓎𝓈 🖤 :

avoidants never let it fully hit them tho and if so not for long

Jarret Sargent :

My avoidant just left me a couple weeks ago with a blindside discard. It’s even worse she also has PMDD. Its been hell trying to recover

dev.denelle :

Well, I was exactly like that and I wasn’t prepared to stay friends after nc was broken. He called to say he’s blocking me forever. Which he’s done. So clearly forgotten me and moved on. It was all a lie. Never loved me.

michealmyers :

I was giving her grace but then back to back to back disrespect making me feel worthless made that shit easy

Ayla :

I’ve been dealing with my avoidant for 10 years on and off he keeps contacting me. He said I’m not as type but why does he keep reaching out?

Lanre :

he is in a new relationship months after, she is in love already. imma just pray for her and him

Amandame :

𝓀𝒶𝓇𝓎𝓈 🖤 :

lfg

𝐒𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐢𝐟_𝐕𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐢𝐥⚫♠☠️ :

I agree

life_in_the_wilds :

I have this dynamic right now and I feel just as locked in. Help

admiredu :

With these avoidant people, you have to be ready to walk away. I go further, I’ve pushed her away many times.

Beverlys_thrills :

Room

Liya Dance Show :

Thank you

Greek/Irish :

GOOD!! You bloody avoidants are some of the worst🙄🙄🙄 I PRAY that she never gets me out of her head, because I know I can't get her out of mine.

halimatuls7 :

😁😁😁