@abbyeckel: Men have an entitlement problem. I will not be contributing to it. I want my sons to know they don’t have to get married and have kids. That they can live with friends, travel the world, volunteer, etc. The end goal does not have to be marriage children. I’m raising them to be good humans. Good men to women they don’t know, ones that they do know, and that marriage and children are not entitled to them or owed to them. Yes, it’s an option, but want them to foster male friendships, platonic friendships, and to be good men to be good humans, not to try and be worthy of marriage and children. #boymom #raisingboys #momlife
abbyeckel
Region: US
Monday 31 August 2026 22:06:33 GMT
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ToucanSam :
I'm raising my son to be self sufficient and self loving.
2026-08-31 23:46:15
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Toot :
Raising mine to be good humans. 🤷🏻♀️
2026-09-01 00:10:06
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PeachPrime :
Those poor kids.
2026-09-01 00:24:10
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Jeyblacc :
Let the father raise the sons.
2026-09-01 12:37:51
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alexgg410 :
As a mom with just girls, I’m also raising my daughters with the same mentality. I don’t care if you get married, I don’t care if you give me grandkids. I tell them I just want them to grow up happy.
2026-09-01 00:08:56
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marko :
I dont know any man that wants marriage, its a bad investment
2026-09-01 17:08:06
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anci19 :
The problem is that men are already raise this way!
2026-09-01 00:33:14
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bigredparks :
Raising my daughters to not think marriage and family is the ultimate goal. I want them to travel see the world experience everything I didn’t
2026-09-01 00:17:07
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Taco’s Mom :
I love seeing how women evolve and change the culture. I have never once seen a man talking about the way and ideology behind how they’re choosing to raise their children. I love that we are the keepers of evolution - but here you are handing over to your sons. I love this.
2026-09-01 01:18:16
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caliemc :
I'm raising my son to be able to take care of himself mentally, physically and financially. Thankfully he is asexual and has not desire to ever have a relationship so hopefully he will be a good roommate.
2026-09-01 02:09:57
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Redisthe_wolf :
Marriage is not a requirement in life. It’s just an option.
2026-09-02 16:12:31
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triblex :
Exactly ppl idolize marriage too much
2026-09-02 14:19:49
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Mike :
I have never known anyone to raise sons so the pinnacle of their existence is to be a husband. Parents attempt to raise their children to be good, responsible, successful adults. Some parents succeed at this, and some don't
2026-09-01 12:50:41
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Matt :
Marriage is pretty much on the way out in the US more than half automatically fail, and that doesn’t even include the people that stay together and I just miserable together
2026-09-01 14:14:43
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Paul Norris :
When it comes to business. You will not be trusted if you are not displaying your commitments.
2026-09-01 14:43:49
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jeanette :
I’m raising my son to put his needs first so he doesn’t take it out on anybody else . That he understands self love first always. Stand on your word and to stand up for the weak and innocent
2026-09-01 15:41:27
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RoN :
And yet women dont have to treat men with kindness ?
2026-09-03 19:59:40
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tylera139 :
I’m with you my son has super high standards to the point where he’s probably going to have to go overseas to find a wife
2026-09-02 09:29:12
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thefrozenchosen :
curious, what’s your husbands take on this? if you’re willing to share. i presume based on your content and when you speak of him that he agrees with you wholeheartedly and didnt give much push back on these ideals but i could be wrong . i have twin daughters so i dont have sons but the mrs and i are contemplating having more so maybe we’ll have a son who knows lol
2026-09-02 21:43:40
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X>-y :
Yesss, I love this so much. I’m tired of women saying they’re going to teach their sons how to be “good husbands.” We need to teach boys to respect women and treat women with basic human decency. Kindness and respect should be given to women without expecting anything in return(sex).
2026-09-01 01:56:40
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Shawn Putnam :
I hope my son never gets married. he is to good of a person to be ruined by marriage
2026-09-02 19:40:14
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comatoast5 :
If raise them to not even think about marriage until they truly understand themselves.
2026-09-02 19:16:21
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Anthony M :
wait I agree for once
2026-09-05 23:47:36
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mulledeiswine :
And what happens when your sons choose a more patriarchal option?
2026-09-02 01:21:40
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