I don't feel like mothering anyone. Never have, still don't and I don't think that I will ever feel like mothering any human being. I am a teacher and I feel like those little humans are my kids. I've been pressurized since I was 18 years old and now I'm 34 years old. No kids. 😌 People have tried making me feel bad and unworthy as a woman, but I couldn't care less about their opinions because first thing's first: THEY ARE SINGLE MOMS!! 😭 No daddies involved. Awoa! I could never bring an innocent little one into this world only to make them suffer. That's cruel because I know how it feels to grow up without a father.
2026-09-05 18:01:47
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lisoh💋🦋 :
And the time we are in is unfavorable for bringing souls... We are still fighting wars so no.. I don't want karmic attachments to other souls... I'm child is me
2026-09-02 13:59:37
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StarDust :
Well said Gogo. The sad part…it’s women who inflict this drama trauma on other women when they themselves had similar experiences and should know better. Forcing women to bring children into this world when they are not ready or in a position to do so can be detrimental to that child. I’m so glad my family never pressured me.
2026-09-01 14:05:35
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Lydia :
@Lydia:Making decisions on women's bodies need to be a crime!
2026-09-01 04:47:21
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Loving_Sheila💕 :
Yhoo, Gogo you are speaking to me. Thokoza!!! The things I’m going through, 28 and my mom is pushing me to birth atleast one. Thank you, I’m going back to contraceptives. Ngiyabonga for this, you just validated something so deep in me🙏🏽✨
2026-09-01 23:18:29
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NcemaPrecious :
I am 25 years and i don’t see myself getting married and having children now
2026-09-02 07:16:21
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Maneli Ndlela :
i think it was yesterday i was complaining i was not seeing you in my FYP. So happy to see you😊
2026-09-01 15:05:46
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Makgotso :
The same thought I had this past week. Decentre societal norms.
2026-09-01 16:00:32
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Nomalulu Nxumalo :
Ngiyakuzwa mina mntomdala but the haiiiir 😍
2026-09-04 07:49:59
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MP Lovers 🥰🥰🥰🥰 :
I am 40 still don't have one and it's not by choice, I used to people say bad things about me even now,and it doesn't bother me anymore 🥰🥰🥰
2026-09-08 09:46:13
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lisoh💋🦋 :
Mina I'm protecting my womb.. No single soul will convince me to have children... And that's it.. I owe nobody an explanation and it's my decision
2026-09-02 13:58:32
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Daughter-of-Ma :
When women are pushing the norms on others and enforcing the abuses for generations
2026-09-01 16:26:12
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dailessbanda153 :
❤️❤️❤️
2026-09-01 05:08:33
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Thuli :
🥰
2026-09-01 23:54:54
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