Chipwichit :
@Del Griffith: OK, let’s try an analogy. Let’s say there are two types of painters which we’ll call the polyamorous, ethical non-monogamy, swinger et.al. category as the house painters. you all are excellent at what you do,,,,your’re high volume ,,,you paint big houses ,,,small houses,,, apartment houses ,,,you do a great job and because everyone consents to your house painting, nobody gets hurt. but then on the other side of the spectrum there’s the artist ,,,,he does it focus on volume or variety or quantity ,,,he can’t paint big houses or small houses or apartment houses, but he’s thoughtful,,,He’s genuine with his emotions. He’s focused and by putting all his attention and his humanity into one focused effort he’s able to create the Mona Lisa ,,,,now to be an artist consent is necessary, but it also takes genuine emotion, and love so unfortunately, as an artist, I could not be a house painter because mere consent would not be sufficient for me to perform the activities and actions that you all do …but as part of the house painter group all you need is consent ,,,,you have that ,,,,so why not give a try to being an artist ,,,slow your roll,,, and just see what it’s like,,,you won’t miss anything as I’m sure they’ll be a polyamorous or swingers weekend right around the corner if being an artist is not for you ,,,,hopefully this can resonate at least a little bit. Take care.
2026-09-02 18:42:13