@kathy.harris17: WARNING!!! ‼️ You want to see the good , bad, and ugly of raising Lane so here you go! This was after he has been screaming at both of us for 5 straight hours so if you have something negative to say don’t until you walk in our shoes! He is screaming for no reason and keeps trying to make coffee over and over without drinking it. We are redirecting him and not showing any emotion for the negative attention. He has very good days but also struggles from time to time! This is the most challenging part of the year for him! When school starts back and the things he likes to do shut down he gets aggravated. He will reset and be fine but it’s just something we have to navigate through. God bless the families dealing with the change of seasons! BTW the tiny house has been a blessing during this time! #autism #autismawareness #fyp #louisiana #autismparents @Lanes Daddy @Dori Callender @Josh

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lyndsayljimenez
lyndsayljimenez :
Dang, dad seems like a drill sergeant. He just stands there, posture strong and not letting Lane be the boss. I’m so impressed.
2026-09-01 01:26:26
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juicy.mxngo
Ashanti🌺 :
he’s ignoring the behaviors bc he’s teaching him that he doesn’t get his way by acting out nor does he get attention
2026-09-01 05:56:45
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munderwood08
🫧MandyU🫧 :
Meanwhile…😅
2026-09-01 03:53:05
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hmeza333
H Meza :
he wants the hug so he can get a reward. dad isn't being heartless, he's teaching
2026-09-02 02:11:30
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darth_maul85
Darth_Maul :
"stop being agitated ok."
2026-09-01 08:43:36
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do.better20
do better🌮 :
I have worked with special needs and it’s not for the weak ! You guys are amazing parents that’s for sure
2026-09-01 00:01:08
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patstafford3
Patricia Sifford 01 :
respectfully this must be so hard
2026-09-01 23:33:07
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shugah_boo
🎶They Not Like Us🎶 :
People don't understand, a lot people with autism functions off rewards and routines. His dad didn't hug him because his behavior is not routine and cannot be rewarded. They are trying to redirect his agitation but he is really just overwhelmed by sudden changes in his routine.
2026-09-01 04:47:33
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carriemotorcyclegirl
carriemotorcyclegirl :
You guys handled that perfectly. After many years working with all ages people of autism, I am tired
2026-09-01 00:45:59
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betmar08
HorseGirl88 :
the way your husband so calmly stood there, i knew your son was probably trying to manipulate the situation ...dad held his ground. that's a strong man to stay calm like that. because we know if he got upset the whole cycle starts over again.
2026-09-02 02:52:08
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sassymommy_x3
∆sassy∆mama :
I have so much respect for you both
2026-09-01 00:18:28
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mzkryste84
MzKryste✨️🌶✨️ :
aww lane i hope tomorrow is a better day
2026-09-01 00:19:26
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scottbiddix
Scott Biddix x :
Ohh I’m so sorry he’s have a bad day
2026-09-19 21:43:46
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rhochlo
Rhonda Reynolds :
This patient you are exceptional at this. Such great parents.
2026-09-19 15:17:27
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longdaycomin
nightmare on vue street :
that poor dog ears
2026-09-19 14:46:59
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tifferzm86
Tifferz410😘 :
As a mom of an adult daughter with autism ADHD ocd and a chromosome disorder I completely understand you my daughter has some bad days and it can be frustrating but setting boundaries is necessary and you guys are doing amazing
2026-09-04 12:16:32
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rhochlo
Rhonda Reynolds :
You and your wife have so many stars in your crown, Jesus sees this. I don’t know if I could be
2026-09-19 15:17:00
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missundaztoodd
Miss-Undaztood :
As a support worker for people with autism and learning disabilities, I know that stance from dad. And I know in that moment it’s killing him to not give Lane a hug.. but he has to be firm and strong and let Lane know that some behaviours are not acceptable. Great job dad!
2026-09-06 10:06:14
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paytonalexisferrell
Payton Alexis Ferrell :
it’s giving lane is the drill sergeant and ur husband is in trouble lol
2026-09-01 11:32:19
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.nikkiv88
Nikki V 🌛 :
God knew exactly who needed to be Lanes parents 🥺🖤
2026-09-01 00:45:52
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nikkilease379
nikkilease379 :
I’ve worked in this field for almost 30 years, starting as a DSP and now serving as a Director of Nursing. Dad isn’t being cold or withholding love—he’s calmly staying present while allowing Lane time and space to regulate. His son is clearly still escalated, and his parents have a lifetime of experience knowing what helps him and what may prolong the behavior. I commend you for the patience, consistency, and love you show in handling these difficult moments.
2026-09-01 09:37:23
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lalahlove4
Eulalah Martin :
Dad is no joke with Lane. He’s standing on business! I love the consistency ❤️
2026-09-01 02:10:21
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jenhale1020
Jennifer Hale :
Praying tomorrow is a better day ! Y’all are so loving and patient
2026-09-01 00:49:05
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caseymoore52
Casey 🦋🧩 :
Thank you for showing this side. It is SO hard to stay patient sometimes. 💙
2026-09-01 00:30:12
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